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Old 04-17-2007, 05:50 AM   #1
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What do you get grandparents for thier anniversary?

They have been married for 27 yrs this year I think. They are both in poor health. He is pretty much in bed all the time. He has mini stroke several times a day & has trouble even standing now. She has heart problems & never learned to drive so any gift certificates are out. They argue all the time & don't even appear to be in love. BUT if we don't do something for them we will get the guilt trip for the next 10 yrs. Anyone have any ideas?
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Old 04-17-2007, 06:09 AM   #2
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Maybe a little "get together" with the family? Each could bring a dish with different foods, if they have a garden, you could put up a little party tent, and do a BBQ or surprise them with a high tea.
Its difficult because they both seem in poor health, so its no good taking them away from home for hours i think?
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Old 04-17-2007, 06:18 AM   #3
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That sound a good idea Mandy, my mum and dad are both in poor health so I know they would like a little get together with family.

But if it is that you feel they will want to open a pressy how about dvd's some old type movies from when they first got together and were crazy about each other I am sure there must have been a time as you are here
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Old 04-17-2007, 08:11 AM   #4
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I like Mandy's idea and maybe one of those First Alert buttons in case they would ever need it.
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Ang, mom what do you think? We could all cook for them & do a covered dish. Angie .....Apple bread!!!!!!!!!!!
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Old 04-17-2007, 05:23 PM   #6
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Ang, mom what do you think? We could all cook for them & do a covered dish. Angie .....Apple bread!!!!!!!!!!!
We can do that if you like Traci--I don't know how Pappaw's nerves will take us all being in that small house at one time-but he manages at Christmas-He seems to be getting worse but talk to Mammaw and if you think it will be OK we will figure everything out
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For my birthday my daughters made a slide show with our family pictures and put it to music on a cd. I loved it! I bet they would really enjoy something like that. Or how about one of those picture frames that have a lot of places for pictures and have it already filled with pictures when you give it to them.
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Old 04-17-2007, 08:20 AM   #8
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For my birthday my daughters made a slide show with our family pictures and put it to music on a cd. I loved it! I bet they would really enjoy something like that. Or how about one of those picture frames that have a lot of places for pictures and have it already filled with pictures when you give it to them.
Mom had them a calendar made for Christmas that had pics of all of us one of each month. She also had a small pic of each person for their birthdays & such. It was really nice & she spent alot of time. These people are very rude & didn't even act like they liked it. Instead of hanging it up she put it in a drawer.
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