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Old 09-07-2007, 09:13 PM   #1
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What do you think??

I got this message in my MySpace inbox tonight from someone who obviously thought she was sending it to Brendon. (My profile picture is both of us.)

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OH MY GOSH i found you! Hey how's it going? I think about you all the time hehe. Grats on your marriage! I'm married too now and i have a little boy His name is Levi. Anyways, you look great and your wife is beautiful Message me sometime I'm gonna be a nurse soon, i'm almost done with school yay! Then i'm going to *our school* to be a nurse practitioner yay money! Haha, anyways send me a message sometime!
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She then sent Brendon a message saying she accidentally sent the message to me instead of him. She said they were in chorus together in middle school (over 10 years ago). He didn't remember her at first until he looked at her picture more closely and realized they sang a song together at a country fair one time... She didn't send me another message to say sorry or that it was a mistake or to give me any kind of explanation for such a strange message in my inbox. I would've been so confused if Bren hadn't told me about the message she sent to him afterwards.

Anyway, is it just me or do you think it's inappropriate to tell another woman's husband that you "think about him all the time"? I was pretty frustrated (at her not Brendon). Am I overreacting?
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Old 09-07-2007, 09:29 PM   #2
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Also, in her message to Brendon she said...

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I had the biggest crush on you @ *name of middle school* lol, i was too shy to tell you.
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Old 09-07-2007, 11:34 PM   #3
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Hmm.... no, in my opinion it's wrong of her to send a msg like that, she is married, with a child, and she know you guys are married.
For all she knows, he could have been married to a jealous, wife, and caused a lot of trouble for him. It's not fair IMO.
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Old 09-08-2007, 07:38 AM   #4
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Thanks Mandy. I'm not usually a jealous person, but sometimes something will just push my buttons. Intuition maybe? I don't know, but I do not like how blatantly obvious she is being...and my poor naive husband, who would never consider cheating, sometimes doesn't even notice when someone is flirting with him. I guess because he doesn't think about it, he doesn't assume others would...
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Old 09-08-2007, 09:18 AM   #5
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Angie, since she sent the message to you, it's only fair to reply if you'd like. You could always let her know he had to look her up in the year book to remember who she was. Bwahahaha that should burst her bubble!

She sounds like a sterotypical dumb blonde. I doubt she means any harm but she comes across as dingy and inappropriate.
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Old 09-08-2007, 12:06 PM   #6
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Angie, since she sent the message to you, it's only fair to reply if you'd like. You could always let her know he had to look her up in the year book to remember who she was. Bwahahaha that should burst her bubble!

She sounds like a sterotypical dumb blonde. I doubt she means any harm but she comes across as dingy and inappropriate.
LOL Tink! You are too funny. I figure it's best to just ignore it. I completely trust Brendon and on top of that, he barely remembers her so she's not getting anywhere even if she does have less than honest intentions. It was just slightly annoying that marriage (both hers and ours) could mean so little to her...
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