Shopping with Hubby at Academy!

gja1000 · 10-03-2009, 07:26 PM

My Texas friends will know what that means at this time of year! LOL!!! (deer hunting)

Gary has lost his hunting lease after this year. It is about 3 hours south of here, very dusty, and frankly, he doesn't need to go down there anymore. He is very sad though, and understandably so, because he had this place about 10 years with his best friend who died last year. They built the camp house themselves and had some wonderful times down there. But all things come to an end and so this lease will end in January. We will have a lease sale down there and sell everything - feeders, deer stands, and things from the camp house. Gary and I aren't able to pack it up and move it up here and we don't have anyplace to store it anyway.

So, back to the present. Last night a longtime friend of Gary's called to say he had found a place for them to hunt about an hour from Austin. I'm so happy because Gary won't have to stay overnight - he can drive out to hunt and then come home. I can take him and then go antiquing in the area and then bring him home or we can take the trailer and park it so he can rest and stay overnight occasionally if he wants. I'm just very very happy. The best thing is that he will be able to hunt there this season (Nov-Jan). He can't go to the lease 3 hours away by himself and he doens't have many friends who can go with him (they are not yet retired), so it is usually me and lordy lordy, I don't want to have to help him clean a deer!!!!! Plus, he isn't really able to do it, even with help (of course, he THINKS he can).

Anyway, today we bought a new stand and feeder to put up at the new place. Yes, it was several hundred dollars outlay, but we will get it back when we sell the stuff at the old lease in January. Also, Gary doesn't have to pay to hunt at the new place so it was worth buying a new feeder and stand. It was worth it too, just to see him so excited!

lynne b · 10-04-2009, 03:19 AM

Oh Gayle, i am so happy to hear that Gary will still be able to hunt, sounds like everything has worked out just perfect.
I know where you are coming from on this cause i am going through the same thing with mom, she also has friends from high school that still come and get her and they go and do things or spend all nighter's just talking and playing cards, it's getting harder for mom to keep up with them but i thank god that they are still there for her, it also kind of gives me a break.

Marilyn · 10-04-2009, 04:19 AM

Oh, Gayle, so happy that this is working out for you and for Gary!!! It's important that he stay as busy as he can doing the things he loves!! I'm sure you had fun at Academy.

gja1000 · 10-04-2009, 04:21 AM

You are right Ladies! It is so good that he can still do some things that he likes to do. Even though it is altered from the past, it is what keeps him going. I say it "feeds his soul".

DianaB · 10-04-2009, 03:22 PM

I'm so glad that things have worked out so well for Gary........and you too. I can't imagine giving up the things that you really love to do because of health reasons, especially for men. Gary must have wonderful friends to think of him and keep him involved as well. How wonderful!!!

gja1000 · 10-04-2009, 05:21 PM

He does have some good friends! He is very lucky - many men do not have very many friends. Since I work in gerontology, I see what often happens and that is men are usually very tied to their work and when that is gone, they don't have much to do and it is not uncommon for them to get sick and die shortly after retirement. Men with friends and lots of outside activities tend to do OK after retirement. Of course, that is a generalization - many men live a long time after retirement.

Gary has always had lots of hunting and fishing friends. Of course, his best friend who took such good care of him died last year, such a big loss for Gary. But this friend, Robert, who called about the new deer hunting place, is a really good friend too. He's much younger, only in his mid 40's so he's still working, but he tries to do as much with Gary as his job will allow.

Yes, for all the bad things that have happened to Gary, he is still very lucky in many ways.

10-03-2009, 07:26 PM	#1
gja1000 Donating 4WT Yakker Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Central Texas Posts: 5,717	Shopping with Hubby at Academy! My Texas friends will know what that means at this time of year! LOL!!! (deer hunting) Gary has lost his hunting lease after this year. It is about 3 hours south of here, very dusty, and frankly, he doesn't need to go down there anymore. He is very sad though, and understandably so, because he had this place about 10 years with his best friend who died last year. They built the camp house themselves and had some wonderful times down there. But all things come to an end and so this lease will end in January. We will have a lease sale down there and sell everything - feeders, deer stands, and things from the camp house. Gary and I aren't able to pack it up and move it up here and we don't have anyplace to store it anyway. So, back to the present. Last night a longtime friend of Gary's called to say he had found a place for them to hunt about an hour from Austin. I'm so happy because Gary won't have to stay overnight - he can drive out to hunt and then come home. I can take him and then go antiquing in the area and then bring him home or we can take the trailer and park it so he can rest and stay overnight occasionally if he wants. I'm just very very happy. The best thing is that he will be able to hunt there this season (Nov-Jan). He can't go to the lease 3 hours away by himself and he doens't have many friends who can go with him (they are not yet retired), so it is usually me and lordy lordy, I don't want to have to help him clean a deer!!!!! Plus, he isn't really able to do it, even with help (of course, he THINKS he can). Anyway, today we bought a new stand and feeder to put up at the new place. Yes, it was several hundred dollars outlay, but we will get it back when we sell the stuff at the old lease in January. Also, Gary doesn't have to pay to hunt at the new place so it was worth buying a new feeder and stand. It was worth it too, just to see him so excited! __________________ Gayle

10-04-2009, 03:19 AM	#2
lynne b Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Indiana Posts: 614	Oh Gayle, i am so happy to hear that Gary will still be able to hunt, sounds like everything has worked out just perfect. I know where you are coming from on this cause i am going through the same thing with mom, she also has friends from high school that still come and get her and they go and do things or spend all nighter's just talking and playing cards, it's getting harder for mom to keep up with them but i thank god that they are still there for her, it also kind of gives me a break. __________________ 'I try to take one day at a time -- but sometimes several days attack me at once.'

10-04-2009, 04:19 AM	#3
Marilyn Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: South Texas Posts: 4,907	Oh, Gayle, so happy that this is working out for you and for Gary!!! It's important that he stay as busy as he can doing the things he loves!! I'm sure you had fun at Academy. __________________ Marilyn If anyone would like a free Bible Study CD or book entitled "Searching for Truth", PM me with your mailing address and I'll send you one. "And you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free." John 8:32

10-04-2009, 04:21 AM	#4
gja1000 Donating 4WT Yakker Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Central Texas Posts: 5,717	You are right Ladies! It is so good that he can still do some things that he likes to do. Even though it is altered from the past, it is what keeps him going. I say it "feeds his soul". __________________ Gayle

10-04-2009, 03:22 PM	#5
DianaB Moderator Donating 4WT 13K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Kansas Posts: 16,069	I'm so glad that things have worked out so well for Gary........and you too. I can't imagine giving up the things that you really love to do because of health reasons, especially for men. Gary must have wonderful friends to think of him and keep him involved as well. How wonderful!!! __________________ ´¨) ¸.•´¸.•´¨) ¸.•*¨) (¸.•´ (¸.•` ¤ Diana Baker ✞ You and I are friends....... Always remember that if you fall I will pick you up...... After I stop laughing!!!

10-04-2009, 05:21 PM	#6
gja1000 Donating 4WT Yakker Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Central Texas Posts: 5,717	He does have some good friends! He is very lucky - many men do not have very many friends. Since I work in gerontology, I see what often happens and that is men are usually very tied to their work and when that is gone, they don't have much to do and it is not uncommon for them to get sick and die shortly after retirement. Men with friends and lots of outside activities tend to do OK after retirement. Of course, that is a generalization - many men live a long time after retirement. Gary has always had lots of hunting and fishing friends. Of course, his best friend who took such good care of him died last year, such a big loss for Gary. But this friend, Robert, who called about the new deer hunting place, is a really good friend too. He's much younger, only in his mid 40's so he's still working, but he tries to do as much with Gary as his job will allow. Yes, for all the bad things that have happened to Gary, he is still very lucky in many ways. __________________ Gayle

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