Anybody want a brother in law?????

[Janet]

Originally Posted by khardy57

Sounds like my husband's family. They were like this when he was alive. His brother was the "chosen" one and my husband did all the work. He got up at 4:00 every morning, checked everything on the farm including his parents, went to work at the DOT by 7:00 each morning and worked 12 hours. He did everything in reverse every evening and I was lucky if he got home before 9:00. HIs brother did NOTHING. My husband literally worked himself to death. Sorry, I am very bitter.

I sincerely hope the bitterness fades and you can open yourself up to the new life you have now. I can't remember who said it...but the saying is..."you can only be happy, if you set your mind to be." Hopefully, since ties have been cut to the in-laws, you can move on to a positive, bright future.