so awkward...

[Taurus Babe]

I thought it was finally getting better, but obviously it's not!! Girl, it sounds like you have a roommate and friend (if that's what you want to call her) from HELL. I know how important girlfriends are, but at this point I would tell that girl that she is NOT allowed in your house. You should not have to resort to medication because of inconsiderate jerks that you are living with. Your 'real' roommate is being a huge jerk, and not respecting you in the least. You both pay to live there and you BOTH make the rules. If he can't adhere to the biggest roommate rule of all (RESPECT) then it's time you tell him where to put it. I know yelling isn't going to fix anything and that's not what I'm suggesting. Maybe you should tell him and the girl that you don't want her over there anymore. Or make a rule that no one is allow over after 12am. It's a shame that neither of them are willing to compromise with you, and it's even more of a shame that this girl just keeps lying to you to keep you quiet. Why would she keep saying sorry, and then repeat her actions over and over again? I'm so sorry you are having to go through this. It's not fair on you at all. Even if you lose this girl as a friend, it sounds like your health is much more worth HER friendship. Good luck.