i'm done trying !!

[pope1982]

I will play devils advocate here, but there is a possibility he is just as scared of opening up to you for fear of being hurt as you are.
Men show emotions in different ways than we do, as I am SURE you have figured out!

This is a challenging time for everyone and mixed signals could be to blame for some of this.

He should have at least sucked it up and said "thank you" though. Although, we are all guilty of throwing ourselves pity parties and taking it out on innocent bystanders from time to time and most definitely saying things we don't mean... regretting it the instant it shows it's ugliness.

Hang in there, can you guys maybe try to get all your feelings out through emails to each other? That way you don't forget everything you have on your mind, and how it's made you feel. Could break the ice, if not for the marriages sake, you do have to remain in each others lives for your beautiful son.

I wish your family the best of luck!