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Old 07-15-2012, 09:50 AM   #1
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Diana I know it's rough but I wouldn't sign either, there two adults and they need to take care of their finances. It's his credit on risk so I don't blame him one bit.

I started with high interest and in a few years like Diane say's they can go get a better rate.
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Old 07-16-2012, 11:17 AM   #2
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Diane......you've hit the nail on the head!! That's exactly what's going on.

Glen has talked to Feyn and Amy's family and they were very supportive of them getting the house. I was surprised but happy about that.

The thing now is whether Glen will sign or not.......and he and Dae Lynn are in the kitchen right now debating on the issue. I'm staying out of it. It's Glen's decision because if I put my two cents in it may come back and bite me in the butt later and I would NEVER hear the end of it. I'll be glad when this is all said and done.

One thing about Dae Lynn is she can hold her ground with Glen. She's telling him like it is.......wish all of you could hear her telling him about stuff!!!
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Old 07-16-2012, 12:38 PM   #3
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You all did a great job with Dae Lynn. I sure wish I had her determination!
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This will all work out in the end! I am so happy for them!
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Old 07-17-2012, 11:08 AM   #5
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Diane......you've hit the nail on the head!! That's exactly what's going on.

Glen has talked to Feyn and Amy's family and they were very supportive of them getting the house. I was surprised but happy about that.

The thing now is whether Glen will sign or not.......and he and Dae Lynn are in the kitchen right now debating on the issue. I'm staying out of it. It's Glen's decision because if I put my two cents in it may come back and bite me in the butt later and I would NEVER hear the end of it. I'll be glad when this is all said and done.

One thing about Dae Lynn is she can hold her ground with Glen. She's telling him like it is.......wish all of you could hear her telling him about stuff!!!
I am sure they will work it out one way or the other, I do sort of see it from Glen's point of view, (i have told you before - you are far more forgiving than i am), it is hard, i am sure he would do anything for Dae Lynn, but its not just her is it, in this instance, and Damon has a lot of work to do getting the respect and love back. It will take time, but either way - they will have their own HOME, and that is a brilliant thing for them as a family and you too.
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Old 07-19-2012, 04:47 PM   #6
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I got to finally see the house yesterday!! It's very nice.......not a new house by any means but is a very nice older house. Nancy was there to show it to us. You could tell that she is having a hard time with her husband gone........she's such a sweet lady. She is very tickled that Dae Lynn and Damon is getting the house and she's known all about Damon's problems and is hoping that this will help give them a chance.

Damon got the down payment from his Dad and the money has been deposited in the bank!! And......Glen said that he would co-sign for them. I totally left the decision up to him. He did have a talk to Dae Lynn about it and there are some rules that will apply should they fall behind in their payments. Everything is working out!! The bank will have their paperwork done in a couple of weeks......then Nancy needs some time to have a garage sale to get rid of things (she's decided not to have an auction).....then once she gets moved it will be theirs!! Sometime near the end of August!!! Yay!!!!
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That is such wonderful news and I'm thrilled for Dae Lynn and Damon!
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Congratulations to them!!!

(and to you too...now you will have some freedom!)
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Old 07-22-2012, 06:34 AM   #9
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I hope it cools down a bit for Kansas so it won't be too hot for Dae Lynn and Damon to move to their new home. She has got to be soooo looking forward to it. It was great that you had a basement to store her things in. It would have been awful to try and find furnishings plus buy a house. Maybe I should ask about the rent for the mobile home???? LOL
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