Depressed getting old at 64

[Gina]

First I want to welcome you to 4wt, I hope that you post here there are wonderful women whom I have come to love and call my friends. Please always feel free to speak..

First of all you are not old and your husband should not make you feel that you both are heading for death..OMG, people are living older these days and are living better thanks to modern medicine and keeping active mentally and phycially. Are you both in good health? You have to start thinking younger and get out there and enjoy life. Don't let it pass you by.

I assume that you are both retired, enjoy going out to dinner, taking up hobbies whether alone or together . Get together with friends , travel if you have the monetary means your still a young couple.. Don't dwell on the numbers it will bring you down. When your husband makes a comment tell him to snap out of it and not to include you in. I don't know if you are grandparents , live for them.. You only get one shot at it....