Anybody want a brother in law?????

[Janet]

Originally Posted by khardy57

Sounds like my husband's family. They were like this when he was alive. His brother was the "chosen" one and my husband did all the work. He got up at 4:00 every morning, checked everything on the farm including his parents, went to work at the DOT by 7:00 each morning and worked 12 hours. He did everything in reverse every evening and I was lucky if he got home before 9:00. HIs brother did NOTHING. My husband literally worked himself to death. Sorry, I am very bitter.

I sincerely hope the bitterness fades and you can open yourself up to the new life you have now. I can't remember who said it...but the saying is..."you can only be happy, if you set your mind to be." Hopefully, since ties have been cut to the in-laws, you can move on to a positive, bright future.

[Marilyn]

So happy for you that you get to start a new fresh life now!!! We've been through family issues and they are absolutely the worst. Take care of yourself now, and hope that you find real peace.

[khardy57]

Thank you all so much! I'm just not in a very good frame of mind right now because Tuesday, the 24th is the first anniversary of Mark's death. My emotions have ranged from anger, to extreme despair and I'm having a really hard time emotionally right now.

[Janet]

Originally Posted by khardy57

Thank you all so much! I'm just not in a very good frame of mind right now because Tuesday, the 24th is the first anniversary of Mark's death. My emotions have ranged from anger, to extreme despair and I'm having a really hard time emotionally right now.

We're here for you anytime. Okay everyone, listen up, we need as many as possible on here on the 24th. If you need someone, I'm sure there will be some of us on here. Wish we could be with you in person to wrap our arms around you. You'll get through it, just try to keep yourself busy and we're here if you need us.