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Old 10-23-2006, 11:05 AM   #1
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ok mandy we shall wait..
c'mon girls hellp us out here, im for sure need help in this area....only cause its mainly embarassing for me....
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Old 10-23-2006, 01:07 PM   #2
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Come on Mandy and Gina.....men are visual...you can figure it out!!! LOLOL

1. Fix a nice light supper, candles, music and that perfect gown....

2. They also like (at times) when you're looking exceptionally good, to watch them at whatever they're doing. Just sharing.


Men are so easy to please.....the suckers!!! LMAO.......LOL
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Old 10-24-2006, 09:02 AM   #3
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Come on Mandy and Gina.....men are visual...you can figure it out!!! LOLOL

1. Fix a nice light supper, candles, music and that perfect gown....

2. They also like (at times) when you're looking exceptionally good, to watch them at whatever they're doing. Just sharing.


Men are so easy to please.....the suckers!!! LMAO.......LOL
Those are GREAT tips Janet! Way to go!! It is so true about "watching whatever they're doing". Men somehow do get turned on by that! Guess it makes them feel all masculine and all, LOL. Hell, whatever works right??

And the dinner, candles, and barely nothing on works perfectly everytime! Even though we as woman don't like that sorta attire, sometimes we gotta just grin and bare it! (no pun intended, LOL)
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Old 10-25-2006, 12:28 AM   #4
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Come on Mandy and Gina.....men are visual...you can figure it out!!! LOLOL

1. Fix a nice light supper, candles, music and that perfect gown....

2. They also like (at times) when you're looking exceptionally good, to watch them at whatever they're doing. Just sharing.


Men are so easy to please.....the suckers!!! LMAO.......LOL

Great tips, i like candles and dinner, gosh i burn candles through the whole house EVERY night, but never at dinner time, but you know i was thinking? After the candles with dinner, the party starts?
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Old 12-17-2006, 03:02 PM   #5
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I'm surprised more people didn't answer this....

before my husband got sick OMG he was the biggest romantic.....I'm very touchy and huggy but I think he had me beat. Now things are totally different and I miss it... but I make up for it with the girls - and once in a while I can lay near him and be ok .... but it's really hard to get romantic with oxygen tubes all over the place.... he's totally out of commission in that department now so .......let's just say I'm very glad I have a great imagination when I'm sleeping lol.....

I look at it this way - We've only been married 6 years but it feels like a lot longer.
& my life was always fun. I have no regrets for anything and always managed to do all that I wanted to do ......I have great friends and used to have a really great social life - Now it's time to be serious and not dwell on the things I don't have anymore.
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Old 12-17-2006, 04:57 PM   #6
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I love romance...Eric is a very loving person...typical Italian!! Loves to hug, kiss and if I want to sit with him and snuggle he will but romantic!? NO! I tell him I want him to be romantic... He tries but, he makes me laugh when he does..can't help it..but, I know that he loves me and he will ALWAYS hold my hand...no matter where we are...It's nice to have a husband like Eric..My first husband would NEVER hold my hand, hug me and the only kiss I would get is when he would go to work and come home and that was usually a peck on the cheek! And I was married to him for 19 yrs!! Second time around was much better...in ALL departments
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Old 12-17-2006, 05:17 PM   #7
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I love romance...Eric is a very loving person...typical Italian!! Loves to hug, kiss and if I want to sit with him and snuggle he will but romantic!? NO! I tell him I want him to be romantic... He tries but, he makes me laugh when he does..can't help it..but, I know that he loves me and he will ALWAYS hold my hand...no matter where we are...It's nice to have a husband like Eric..My first husband would NEVER hold my hand, hug me and the only kiss I would get is when he would go to work and come home and that was usually a peck on the cheek! And I was married to him for 19 yrs!! Second time around was much better...in ALL departments

Brenda!! My husband is italian, so what!! lol he is not so romantic at all.. I married the wrong italian...lol I am very romantic he is not.. He shows his love in other ways, helping around house, cooking if I am working etc... Can't have it all I guess...

But I agree with what Janet says, spice it up girls .. Men are very visual and that is a turn on to them...
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Old 12-18-2006, 07:07 AM   #8
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Brenda!! My husband is italian, so what!! lol he is not so romantic at all.. I married the wrong italian...lol I am very romantic he is not.. He shows his love in other ways, helping around house, cooking if I am working etc... Can't have it all I guess...

But I agree with what Janet says, spice it up girls .. Men are very visual and that is a turn on to them...
My hubby sounds like yours, not very physical or romantic, but he does help around the house a lot.

As far as visual that's correct, the only way I've found to really start his engine is to give him a totally clean landing strip (if you know what I'm saying), gets him going every time.
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