Nice "friend"

[Lindsey]

I'm actually paying more than half the rent! I think my roommate is a little more understanding now, he has told me that the last thing he wants is to keep me up all night. She just shows up and he doesn't want to tell her to leave.
She called a few times last night and I heard part of the last conversation... he said "It doesn't matter I guess. Do you really want to come over?" If my boyfriend said that to me there's no way I'd go over! Anyways, she also told me she hooked up with another guy while she was on a pubcrawl this weekend, and my roommate was on the pubcrawl with her. So basically, she's a slut, and she likes to brag about it.
The only reason I'm trying to be so patient is that I have to be in the same room as her 8 hours a day, and she's friends with my boyfriend's group of friends.

[Janet]

With friends like that....who needs enemies!!!! 8 weeks is a long time...I would tell him to get her out or he's out!!!

[Mandy]

Originally Posted by Janet

With friends like that....who needs enemies!!!! 8 weeks is a long time...I would tell him to get her out or he's out!!!

I agree She's a "sorry excuse" for a friend!! Tell him to go to her place if they want to party all night!

[Willow]

I would definitely tell her to get out and I would tell my roommate that roommates are expendable. Especially if you are paying more than half the rent, then that means you have more than half the say so.

[Lindsey]

I guess I was just hoping they would get sick of seeing each other all day in school and all night at my house. Well, I guess HE has, but she's obsessive. At the start I just wanted to avoid a confrontation, but I got over that and talked to her so many times. My roommate is now seeing how much it bothers me, and tonight he's going out with a bunch of his friends so that she won't show up here. At least I hope she won't.

[Janet]

Well good luck....but I have to tell you...you are going to have to step up to the plate or you're going to have people walk on you your whole life. Start getting in practice now......

[Lindsey]

I know, I'm really not good at standing up for myself. It took soooo much courage the first time I talked to her about it. I think if this were a situation like if we worked together and it would be long term, I would either tell my roommate to leave, or find a new roommate and I would be gone. But right now it's not worth it for the month and a half we're living here.
And even though they've known her for longer, my boyfriend and his friends are pretty much on my side about this whole situation, which makes me feel better about saying anything to her. Before I was just worried it would cause a big rift when everyone was getting together.
BTW, she did show up last night while I was on the phone in my room. I didn't even hear her come in, but when I brought the phone back out, there were her ratty old sandals at the front door. I let my dog chew on them a bit