Discipline

Discipline is a must, and if you do that disciplining when they are really young, as they mature, far less is needed. I just hate to see those 2 and 3 yr olds, running amok and mommy (or daddy) is over there saying "do you want a time out?" Well wake up!!!!MOM...no one WANTS a time out....do your job!!
I have two sons, 18 and 21 now..and when they were small I wasn't afraid to swat them on the bum (with my hand) if it was called for. By age 5 or so, they didn't need that, I could just look at them and they knew to straighten up. Mid thru teen years, we mostly stuck to groundings or taking away things.
I really think though the biggest problem with kids nowdays is that parents just aren't spending the time with their children. They may be in tons of activities, but family dinners and just quality time isn't happening anymore. I think that is a shame. I know most people it takes mom and dad both working to make it work, and I do understand that...but...if you can, I think you should stay at home with them and do without some things (luxuries, not food ). That is what my husband and I did, and I think that being there for them and disciplining when needed made for two great kids!! A lot of plain ole family values are falling by the wayside these days...and all of us are going to be paying the price!!