The last day and my MIL........

[judy]

OMG! Mean is mean, Diana, and I don't blame you for wanting to be done with her. How awful for her to use possessions to control people and to hurt people.
I can see why you get hurt. It seems like she wants you to.

It also seems that your children have already figured her out since they don't want much to do with her. If she gives them nothing, they may be prepared for that.

Let her live long and prosper, and may her hoarding get her stuck in a little part of one room!