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Old 11-08-2006, 09:09 AM   #1
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Some couples have a "date" night, maybe you and he could have a special time every couple of days to let things out. Maybe that would help. I sincerely wish the best for you and Phil and hope you didn't take my previous post as a warning. I just wanted you to be more aware in the future. Best wishes!!!
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Old 11-08-2006, 09:57 AM   #2
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Some couples have a "date" night, maybe you and he could have a special time every couple of days to let things out. Maybe that would help. I sincerely wish the best for you and Phil and hope you didn't take my previous post as a warning. I just wanted you to be more aware in the future. Best wishes!!!

that is sucha good idea!! i was trying to think of a way that he could feel comfortable and sort of obligated to just let all of those emotions out and having a planned night to sit and talk is great! thanks so much! yall have been so helpful through everything and i cant tell you enough how much i appreciate it. lets just hope that phil can realize his shortcomings and i can as well.. so that we can work together and build a strong communicating relationship.
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Old 11-08-2006, 04:02 PM   #3
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I'm glad everything worked out for you. And you're right about men...they bottle stuff in, and then flip out. We women usually like to talk about everything as soon as it comes up.
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Old 11-08-2006, 04:15 PM   #4
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I, too, am happy that things have seemed to work out. I would still HIGHLY recommend to you read He's Just Not That Into You. I'm not saying that your bf isn't into you, but it is very enlightening.
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Old 11-08-2006, 04:34 PM   #5
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I, too, am happy that things have seemed to work out. I would still HIGHLY recommend to you read He's Just Not That Into You. I'm not saying that your bf isn't into you, but it is very enlightening.
I LOVE that book!! I learned soooo much!
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I LOVE that book!! I learned soooo much!

OMG! ME TOO!!!!!!!!! I had SOOOOOOOOOO many friends break up with their bf's after reading this book. Amazing and so straightforward.
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I, too, am happy that things have seemed to work out. I would still HIGHLY recommend to you read He's Just Not That Into You. I'm not saying that your bf isn't into you, but it is very enlightening.

oh i definately read that book last week after you recommended it and i loved it. it allowed me to realized what i needed to speak up to phil about. it also gave me the courage to know what i want and to know that i deserve and not to accept anything less. if i give him 100% of me everyday so can he. thanks so much for the tip ... i already sent a copy to all of my sisters and friends!
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