4WomenTalk Forums Community for Women  

4WomenTalk.com Home Forums Start Page Forums Chat Chat Frequently Asked Questions FAQ Member List Members List
Go Back   4WomenTalk Forums Community for Women > 4WomenTalk Forums > Parenting & Family

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 07-06-2010, 07:37 PM   #1
gja1000
Donating 4WT Yakker
 
gja1000's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Central Texas
Posts: 5,717
Update on Mom's dog, Rusty

He went to the rainbow bridge today. Poor mom, she is just heartbroken - even though she's known for a few weeks that this would likely happen soon.

As mentioned in the other thread, he got better after the last visit to the vet, no more bloody diarrhea. But last Friday they started finding random blood drops on the floor - but he was still eating and acting fine. Then yesterday they found a LARGE pool of bright red blood on the floor - so they took him to the vet today and while in the office he had a LARGE BM of dark old blood. Between the two blood events, he had lost a lot of blood - his abdomen was very swollen and painful. The vet said it was either cancer or organ failure - both of which were going to result in the same outcome. Mom made the decision she didn't want him to suffer a painful death - so he went peacefully to the great beyond.

It is so hard. The vet was almost beside himself because the patient right before Rusty had to be put down too. So, back to back futile cases and upset families were almost too much for him. I wasn't there so mom and my daughter had to handle it. They did good, but WHEW! it is hard.
__________________
Gayle
gja1000 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 07-07-2010, 01:05 AM   #2
lynne b
Senior Member
 
lynne b's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: Indiana
Posts: 614
Send a message via Yahoo to lynne b
Oh Gayle, I am so sorry about your mom's dog, R.I.P. Rusty. I hope your mom is doing ok. Thoughts and prayers going out to your mom and family.
__________________
'I try to take one day at a time -- but sometimes several days attack me at once.'
lynne b is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 07-07-2010, 05:28 AM   #3
paula1961
Senior Member
 
paula1961's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: Kentucky
Posts: 3,383
I am so very sorry to hear of your Mom's loss. I will be saying a prayer for her. I know how heart breaking this is. I've been there myself. It is very hard.

RIP..Rusty
paula1961 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 07-07-2010, 06:51 AM   #4
Janet
Moderator
Donating 4WT 18K Club Member
 
Janet's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: INDIANA
Posts: 21,624
Send a message via MSN to Janet Send a message via Yahoo to Janet
I couldn't help but cry when I read your post. I remember when we had our poodle pts. It was so hard, but I couldn't stand for him to suffer...he had a stroke.

Praying your Mom will find some comfort in memories of him.
__________________
To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1
Janet is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 07-07-2010, 09:35 AM   #5
DianaB
Moderator
Donating 4WT 13K Club Member
 
DianaB's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Kansas
Posts: 16,069
Oh, how sad. It's so hard to lose a friend that you've had for so many years. I'm glad that they took him to the vet and didn't watch him suffer any longer than was necessary. Hugs to your Mom.
DianaB is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 07-07-2010, 12:07 PM   #6
DIANE W
Senior Member
 
DIANE W's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2009
Posts: 278
Oh that is really sad, i too know what it is like to lose a little member of your family, it is just heartbreaking, even though you know you have done the right thing for them - the pain you feel is just awful.

I will be thinking about your poor mum.
__________________
Diane.

My Mottos are....
Just live for today..... and let tomorrow take care of itself

Live each day as if it's your last - and hope that tomorrow you wake up to find that it wasn't
DIANE W is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 07-07-2010, 02:22 PM   #7
judy
Donating 4WT Yakker
 
judy's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Denver, NY
Posts: 8,097
I am so sorry that your Mom had to give up Rusty. It is so hard to lose your dog. She did the best thing for him, but I will be praying for her.

RIP Rusty.
__________________
Judy



judy is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 07-07-2010, 04:42 PM   #8
gja1000
Donating 4WT Yakker
 
gja1000's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Central Texas
Posts: 5,717
Thanks for all the kind words and prayers. I will tell mom about all of them. She is doing OK, of course she cries when she talks about him, but she is able to say that he lived a good life and that it was just "his time".

She will have her ups and downs, but fortunately she keeps busy with the 3 year old great granddaughter who spends lots of time with her and that will help a lot to keep her from being so sad.
__________________
Gayle
gja1000 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 07-07-2010, 06:24 PM   #9
Blueyes
Donating 4WT Talker
 
Blueyes's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Texas
Posts: 2,119
So sorry to hear about Rusty. I'm glad your mom has you all around... that's bound to help.
__________________
Betsi
Blueyes is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 07-09-2010, 11:49 AM   #10
JJJ
Donating 4WT Addict
 
JJJ's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2010
Posts: 1,073
R.I.P Rusty

I hope your mother is feeling better about this whole outcome. I'm sure Rusty is happy his mommy did the right choice looking out for him.
JJJ is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 07-09-2010, 05:21 PM   #11
Gina
Donating 4WT 500 Club Member
 
Gina's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2006
Posts: 6,025
Gayle hugs to your mom .. I am sorry to hear about Rusty.. RIP ...
Gina is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 07-10-2010, 06:38 AM   #12
Marilyn
Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member
 
Marilyn's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: South Texas
Posts: 4,907
So sad to hear about this. It's wonderful that she has a granddaughter to help keep her busy so she doesn't just sit and be sad. This has to cause her to think of her own mortality. Huggs to you all!!!
__________________
Marilyn
If anyone would like a free Bible Study CD or book entitled "Searching for Truth", PM me with your mailing address and I'll send you one. "And you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free." John 8:32
Marilyn is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply

Bookmarks


Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is Off
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump


All times are GMT -8. The time now is 02:51 PM.

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2025, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.

Copyright ©2006-2008 4WomenTalk.com