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10-22-2010, 08:17 AM
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I'm glad that everything went well. Your Uncle is very blessed to have you in his life. It will be hard for him to adjust to your Aunt not being there but, thankfully he has you!!
Personally I think that talking about her and laughing will help both of you to go through your loss. Hugs to you both!!! |
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10-22-2010, 12:50 PM
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Thanks again, I have been with him most of the day today, cleaning and shopping etc.
We are both ok.
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Diane. My Mottos are....  Just live for today..... and let tomorrow take care of itself   Live each day as if it's your last - and hope that tomorrow you wake up to find that it wasn't
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10-22-2010, 01:17 PM
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Diana, you have made it through the hard part, now you and your uncle are on your way to remembering all the good times with your aunt and adjusting to a new way of life without her, you are such a wonderful person to be there to help your uncle through this hard time. Prayers to you both.
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10-23-2010, 12:26 PM
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Thank you Lynne, I am just that sort of family orientated person, but even though there are other neices and nephews, I have always been extra close (more like a daughter), to my Aunt and Uncle. He seems to be doing ok, suffering in his own way i think, but we do talk of her, and remember conversations etc. It does help, I am just taking one day and a time, i know time will help us.
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Diane. My Mottos are.... Just live for today..... and let tomorrow take care of itself Live each day as if it's your last - and hope that tomorrow you wake up to find that it wasn't
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10-23-2010, 02:43 PM
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Yes, one day at a time makes it more bearable. I'm so sorry you are having to go through this. You are such a special person!
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10-24-2010, 03:14 AM
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Thank you Gayle.... It is good to be able to come here and chat, because to everyone i am the strong one, the one that holds everything together. Which i can do fine, but its nice to be able to come here and talk about how i feel.
Thanks everyone, you are all very special people, and its lovely to be a part of something so wonderful and supportive.
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Diane. My Mottos are.... Just live for today..... and let tomorrow take care of itself Live each day as if it's your last - and hope that tomorrow you wake up to find that it wasn't
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10-25-2010, 06:30 AM
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It is hard to lose someone you love, especially when you are alone. You and your Uncle are so lucky to have each other.
I will keep you both in my heart and my prayers.
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