My Grandma

[DianaB]

Your poor Grandma!!! They're treating her so awful!! To go in and take stuff while she's still living and using it........that's awful!!! They are very uncaring and greedy.

I have a step-father and he has 5 grown kids and I've wondered how things will go if he should die because my Mom lives in his house......but she's put a lot of money in it and it looks so nice now compared to how it did when she first moved in. Alot of the furniture is my Mom's and she had it before she married him. If the tables were turned and my Mom passed away I would leave things as they are and get what we want later......either when my step-Dad was ready or when he passes. I don't know exactly what we'll get into in the future with this. Do you split things in two?.....or do you divide evenly between all of the kids.....which would be 7 of us? My Mom has worked full time and my step-Dad only works one or two days a week. I don't know.....I guess that we'll see. I need to have a LONG talk with my Mom about this.