Wow..i could write a book

[judy]

Wow Paula! This is stressful, but I also think it is wonderful! The more people you love, the happier you are. Five grandchildren is a blessing, and I hope that it does work out that you have good relationships with all of them.

I know that when my daughter got to be in her 20's, I had no control over what she did....and now I have Mackenzie! Brandon and Kassidy were born after they got married.

The best thing for me was to accept that she was an adult and to do my best to not get too involved in their decisions. It took several years, but I have done the best I could.

You better set up a Christmas fund!