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05-22-2011, 01:29 PM
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I honestly don't remember if she Sid or not. She was completely out of line. She never calls mom or visits unless she thinks she is dying and then comes to the hospital just in case so she can try and get attention. She's a pain for sure. Please don't be sorry I don't want her as a friend or niece.
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05-22-2011, 04:59 PM
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You sound so stressed! When are the health aides, etc. coming again?
By the way, maybe you can call the agency and ask them to send an aide who has the physical ability to help Mom. I know we all have to earn a living, but a 6 month pregnant woman who cannot do heavy lifting cannot be an aide to someone who needs help getting up, walking, etc. If not, it still is help!
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05-23-2011, 09:27 AM
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 No it is not help, she is endangering her baby, herself and your mother. Please ask for someone else. I have worked for a home health agency and they do accomodate when you are not at ease with there help. And I'm sorry about your FB little problem. There's always someone. |
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05-23-2011, 03:46 PM
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The nurse came again today. She is really nice and so thorough, I like her alot. The PT....not real sure about her, but I did mention my concerns to the nurse. A Home Health Aide came today to give Mom a bath. We didn't know she was coming so I pulled her aside and had her just talk with Mom a bit so they could get to know each other. No one would want a stranger to just come in and give them a bath. Mom thought she was nice and a talker...lol. She's coming back on Wednesday for the bath. Hopefully it will go well. Tomorrow an Occupational Therapist will be coming. I'm anxious to see how Mom does with HIM...lol. If he's nice looking she will do darn near anything he asks....LOLOL.
My younger brother did his 90 minute token visit with Mom to play Yahtzee. I need to find a time to speak with him about helping more. Jerry and his wife do really good...could be more, but they also work weekends so I can live with this. Brad on the other hand....instead of playing Yahtzee (in my way and not giving me a break) he could take Mom out for supper or for ice cream...maybe just a ride to get out of the house. He just doesn't get it and when I point it out....I can be assured he'll get mad. Oh well....not my fault, it's his.
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05-23-2011, 09:24 PM
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Why don't you ask Jerry to talk to your younger brother? Then you don't have to deal with the stress of it.
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05-24-2011, 02:40 AM
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To tell ya the truth....I don't think he has the b****...lol....only to strangers on FB...lol
Talking to Brad doesn't really stress me out....if he gets mad he'll just have to get glad again....takes more energy to be mad than happy.
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I don't think he will stay mad. She is his mother too!
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