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09-29-2011, 03:31 PM
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I'm probably not the one to give you relationship advice. I totally believe in doing almost whatever it takes to save a marriage. Remember your vows, let go and let God, and pray like crazy.
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09-29-2011, 04:46 PM
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I know Sandy....I'm just not in the mood to deal with him on top of everything else going on.
It will get better.
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09-30-2011, 05:13 AM
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Can you just tell him this, and that you will talk to him when you aren't so overwhelmed about your mother?
It was sweet that he gave you a card though. Doesn't mean you have to fall in love with him, but take it for what it was worth. Maybe a smile?
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09-30-2011, 06:29 AM
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I know....I was terrible. I didn't mean to forget. I've just had so much going on here and trying to handle the Florida property. I honestly forgot and didn't know he would take it so personally. I'm usually good about being so organized and on top of things, but I blew it this time. I'm the bad girl in this....so I'll go sit in the corner for awhile.
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09-30-2011, 08:14 AM
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Maybe a talk with Rick is what you need....not to fall in love again but to get some of the resentment towards him resolved. He needs to know why you're angry with him so he can work on it. You both have a lot to resolve between the two of you just so you can at least live in a peaceful home. Don't get angry with him when you have your talk but remain calm so you can work things out. You can learn to get along better.....for Ricky's sake. Remember it takes two......to make a marriage......or destroy a marriage. It's never just one person's fault.
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09-30-2011, 09:21 AM
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That's true. When we spoke the other night...he was the one that got a little loud. I wasn't angry at all. He asked questions...I answered calmly. I'm pretty much done with the anger so if he wants to talk about it again this weekend we can. I really don't want a divorce...I just want to live as partners...does that make sense? The marital feelings just aren't there anymore. We'll see....either way...I'm at peace with whatever happens.
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09-30-2011, 09:38 AM
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It sounds like youy know exactly what you want to do, so I would imagine you will get it. There isn't really anything to fight over.
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