Plans For Easter?

[DIANE W]

Originally Posted by Janet

I really hope that things can be worked out. It's so crazy but this morning I had a good cry because I miss my brothers. Of course I could call them, but I know they don't want to hear from me, otherwise they'd call. It's okay I guess, as long as they are good and happy.

Maybe once Mom's estate is totally settled and some more time passes, they open their hearts a little more. Without knowing what happened between your husband and his parents, I hope enough time will pass that they can reconcile. We need family.

Do you know Janet, it wasnt that there was a terrible thing happen, its just a drip drip drip of petty rows over the years, we have always been there for them, done whatever they have asked of us at the drop of a hat, been at their beck and call really. But the last fall out just sort of made my husband realise that unless we back away, we are always going to be going through this cr-p with them.
So for our own sakes and peace we have made this difficult decision, who know if they come around and accept what they are like with him..... then who knows in the future? but as i have already said, we have to take care of ourselves now, we cant keep going through all the arguments anymore, each one seems to get bigger, because they bring up the last one as well.
I feel for my husband so much, because they have proved they dont care about their son and his feelings.............and that is just not right, i would never let anything come between my daughter.
So although we are sad it came to this, at least we have peace now.