His Girlfriend.......

[Shada]

I wish I had words of advice and wisdom to share.... but...
You are a amazing mother. You have shown him love and acceptance. You have always had his back. You still do. I pray he comes to realize that you have his best interest at heart. Stay strong Janet. Stay firm.
But also let him know how much you love him.

Hopefully he will give this time. To think. To respond to what her needs are. To know he is just a way out for her.. a means to use and let him take care of her.. I am sure if he can't rescue her quickly, she will find another.
Does she work? Is she trying to improve her lot in life? Or is she just looking for someone to take care of her?

I feel so bad for you... for Ricky too. The poor kid will probably come out of this with a broken heart. But hopefully a little wiser too. My prayers are with you all.

[Janet]

Thank you so much Shada!!

Rick is still seeing her and I just keep my mouth shut. He has mentioned a few things he's tired of so maybe he's been with her long enough to see some of the things I mentioned before. I accept her, but still don't really care for her. I just have to remember, it's Rick's decision, his life, his heart. I can only be there to gently guide and pick up the pieces should they fall.

[Janet]

We're into May now and Rick is still seeing this girl Audra. AND yes...I'm still not thrilled...lolol Oh well, looks like she may be around for awhile although I can see signs and Rick tells me himself that she's always getting mad about something and it's getting on his nerves. YAY....hope she keeps it up..

[Janet]

The GIRLFRIEND is still in the picture. Not sure what to do but wait it out. Ricky does know that his father and I do not care for her at all. We learn more negatives about her and her family everyday it seems. So, he can see her, but not here. We don't want to pretend to want her here. I know it doesn't sound very Christian, but this relationship is a train wreck waiting to happen. When it does, we'll be here to help him through it.