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Old 10-17-2013, 01:41 PM   #1
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What a situation you are in!!!! Sorry for you and the rest of your family..

Your soon to be sister-in-law sounds like a real piece of cake!!! And your brother needs to wake up!! My hat is off to you and sorry you are put in the middle. Just think 'and this too shall pass'

I would tell your brother you do not need any stress right now and he needs to make the calls.. if not maybe it will be much quieter without the guests he neglected to call and or invite.... should not be up to you.

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Old 10-17-2013, 05:08 PM   #2
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Oh Lindsey, I would just hate all this drama. It's so very petty too. The bride knows the plans for your cousin's dinner - and planning a dinner after the shower is just petty petty petty. Why do people have to be that way??? I know you'll be so happy for it to all be over, it just can't be fast enough!!! GRRRRR!
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Old 10-17-2013, 06:05 PM   #3
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I just don't want to care anymore, but it's tough when I care about the other people it's affecting! In the end, Scott and I will have a nice beach vacation. We're not partiers, so it will be relaxing for the most part.
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Old 10-24-2013, 06:54 AM   #4
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Just let anyone know that calls you with a problem that they need to talk to your brother. It's not up to you to play middle man for all of this nonsense! You don't need all of this drama!
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Old 10-24-2013, 01:12 PM   #5
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Well, the bridal shower is now just over a week away, and I haven't even been invited. My future sister-in-law hasn't called me, her bridesmaids haven't called me, only my brother texted me to say she really wants me there. I haven't been told a time or a place or anything. I have a gift for her, but maybe I'll end up just sending it with someone else. I feel like I'm not particularly wanted there if nobody is even willing to make a phone call. My mom hasn't been invited either, even though my brother had her switch days at work just so she could be here for it.
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Ask your brother about the time and place so you can be there but make sure that you have your car there so you can leave if you want to. You don't want to be stuck somewhere and not be able to go home.
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If I don't hear anything this weekend, I will call my brother on Monday and find out the time and place from him. It's all just so disorganized and it makes me want to rip out my hair lol! I'm the kind of person who has my whole schedule planned out as far in advance as possible!
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