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09-09-2006, 09:42 AM
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I think I would do it. If I were able to help a friend through a difficult situation like that I would.
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09-09-2006, 06:01 PM
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I really don't think I could. I have 1 daughter & there is no way I could give her up. The bond you have with your baby while your pregnant is so strong & then seeing it for the 1st time once it's born is so amazing. I don't think I could let the baby go. I feel awful for people that aren't able to have children because it's an amazing experience. And I think anyone willing to be a surrogate is a wonderful person!
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09-09-2006, 06:52 PM
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I was ask once to when my son was 2, They was going to pay for everything, I said NO. I did tell my SIL I would for her and my brother, she was with child the same time I was with my son and she lost hers. Their oldest daughter is 13 I'm so happy for them. SO my answer is NO!!!
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09-11-2006, 07:33 AM
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I'll keep it short 'n sweet....
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09-11-2006, 07:35 AM
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If it wasn't already physically impossible Id have to be honest and say no. Emotionally I don't think I could handle it for so many many reasons.
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09-11-2006, 07:43 AM
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It would take alot of thinking but I think I would be willing to do it. I would be worried about the attachment thing but I would think you could keep a clear head and not get attached since you would know it's not yours.
The only reason I would think I would not be able to do it is b/c of my husband. I don't think he would want me to. I can't exactly explain why I know he would have problems with it. But I KNOW he would have problems with it.
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09-11-2006, 07:47 AM
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Without a doubt, to help out family, I would! My first cousin and her husband found out with their first baby that he was anencephalic (without a brain) when she was 4 months into her pregnancy. They decided, after much prayer, to end the pregnancy. Six months later, she became pregnant again - and again, the baby was diagnosed as anencephalic 4 months into the pregnancy. Tests were run on both her and her husband, tests were run on the amniotic fluid and the baby, trying to find out rhyme or reason to what was happening. I had called her and told her that if they did not want to try again, I'd be more than willing to be a surragate for her (she and I look a lot a like, same hair coloring, same eye coloring, practically the same build). She could not believe I would offer to do that for them and said they were going to try one more time before making a decision on suragacy or adoption. One year later, she became pregnant again and we all held our breaths until her 4th month when she had the test - third time was the blessing and they learned they had a, so far, healthy baby
They went on to have a girl followed by a boy 4 years later. Tragically, her husband was killed 4 years ago in a stupid incident while on a fishing trip in south Louisiana. Now, being a suragate is out of the question since my "housing unit" was removed 8 years ago.
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09-11-2006, 07:54 AM
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Heck... I can't even consider breeding Yorkies 'cuz I know I'd never be able to give them up...
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