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12-22-2006, 02:17 AM
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Hi Brenda, i'm sorry you going through this. Hope everything works out for you both!
Keeping you both in my thoughts and prayers. Cheer up girl, we are here for you 
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12-22-2006, 03:50 AM
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Oh Brenda, my heart is just aching for you!
 I think Tink has given you some wonderful advice. It's up to you to decide how much you will take and for how long. Remember though that life is too short to live with heartache day in and day out. You might also want to seek counceling for yourself, to see why this is the type of man/husband you've picked twice. We all do things, not matter what it is, for a reason....you need to find out why..... so it will never happen again.I'll keep you in my prayers sweetie.... 
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12-22-2006, 11:15 AM
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Brenda, my heart goes out to you, too. Do you have a strong church family??? If not, you may consider finding one. You need some strong loving support. Our blood families can sometimes provide this, but they may be too close to the issue to give you the comfort & reassurance that you really need. You need someone to talk to in person who can help you cope, either a councelor, who may be expensive if you insurance won't cover, or a church family who don't ask a lot, but have a lot to give.
You and your husband are in my prayers.
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12-22-2006, 12:20 PM
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Brenda,
I'm so sorry you're going thru this. It's very dealing with a person who's bi-polar. I know, I have a family who is bi-polar. I will be praying for you and for your husband. It took a life and death situation for my family member to realize that he had to be responsible for himself. God bless you. |
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12-22-2006, 05:22 PM
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Thank everyone for your kind words...I have thought about seeing a therapist for my own sanity...I keep telling myself there is a reason God put me with Eric...maybe to help him? I don't know but, I do love him with all of my heart and won't give up...I have a very strong faith and do hold onto that. I'm just praying that Eric see's the light before it's too late.
Thank you so much everyone Hugs to you all Brenda
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12-22-2006, 05:36 PM
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God bless you... I will keep you in my prayers also...
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12-23-2006, 09:57 AM
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Brenda ,
Janet and Tink gave you wonderful advice. I cannot add to much on bi polar for I never encounter anyone in my family with this problem. I do know one thing, I had problems with my husband awhile ago, he came from an emotional abusive family, and he was doing this to me over the years, I will be married 25 yrs in the Spring. I stepped up to the plate , not realizing I allowed him to treat me this way, and sought therapy. The best thing I ever did. We are still together, he is a good man basically but a cold person. I have learned to accept him and I don't let him get away with much these days. Brenda go for therapy you will find your answers. God Bless.. |
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