Valentines Day.

[Taurus Babe]

HAHAHAHA! Nice!
Yeah Janet, it's hard to find cards that aren't all *mush*.

And yes, sex is free!!

[Janet]

I do not like the way my post sounded.... It's not that I don't love my husband, I do, but it's different now. We've had a rough 32 years, not all of it, but a lot. I just don't like all the mushy stuff that would make him think of S....E.....X...!!! I wish I could get over it, but I do most everything around here. After 32 years...it's just another job that I hate and another mess to clean up.

Please don't think I'm awful...unless one lived in my marriage, no one would have any idea how I feel. Yes, I've done counceling, like I always suggest, but it has to be a two way street. I can only help myself.

[Gina]

Originally Posted by Janet

I do not like the way my post sounded.... It's not that I don't love my husband, I do, but it's different now. We've had a rough 32 years, not all of it, but a lot. I just don't like all the mushy stuff that would make him think of S....E.....X...!!! I wish I could get over it, but I do most everything around here. After 32 years...it's just another job that I hate and another mess to clean up.

Please don't think I'm awful...unless one lived in my marriage, no one would have any idea how I feel. Yes, I've done counceling, like I always suggest, but it has to be a two way street. I can only help myself.

Janet its okay to feel that way, to be honest I to will be married 25 yrs. we have had our ups and downs like everyone else. We did the councel thing to.. I don't care for mushy cards to, and its ok to feel that way. My husband on V day usually buys me candy and flowers, I in turn buy him chocolate that he likes.

[Taurus Babe]

Originally Posted by Janet

I do not like the way my post sounded.... It's not that I don't love my husband, I do, but it's different now. We've had a rough 32 years, not all of it, but a lot. I just don't like all the mushy stuff that would make him think of S....E.....X...!!! I wish I could get over it, but I do most everything around here. After 32 years...it's just another job that I hate and another mess to clean up.

Please don't think I'm awful...unless one lived in my marriage, no one would have any idea how I feel. Yes, I've done counceling, like I always suggest, but it has to be a two way street. I can only help myself.

Janet,
Only you know what it's like to be living in your shoes through your marriage, and no one is judging you. I can understand the sex thing, (with an X) it was just another chore that I dreaded...but everyone has their own thoughts on Valentines day and as Rebecca mentioned, it's totally a Hallmark day, and another 'holiday' (if you want to call it that) where stores can rope you in to buy more stuff! It's okay not to be a big fan of...really anything you don't want to be a fan of! You can enjoy your yorkies!!! And, you can spend the day/evening however you want to!!

[Taurus Babe]

By BF isn't working on Valentines day!!! He was supposed to work night shift on Vday but he took someone else's shift, and has it off now!!! It was going to be a surprise, but I finally figured it out today, I hadn't put two and two together, but I'm really happy cause this will be our first Vday! It'll be low key, cause I'm BROKE, and currently unemployed! Just wanted to share!