oh my god

Mandy · 03-02-2007, 01:03 AM

Ohhhh Lindsey, i'm so sorry this happend! Hugs to you, we are here if you want to talk!

khardy57 · 03-02-2007, 04:28 AM

Ah, Lindsey - what a jerk he is! Especially after you uprooted your whole life for him.

I'm so sorry this happened to you........

Janet · 03-02-2007, 04:44 AM

Sorry you're going through this Lindsay. I know it hurts, but keep busy. When you're busy, it's hard to think about our troubles. You're young, you have your whole life ahead of you, God has a plan, and this guy obviously isn't in it. Try to find strength to put one foot in front of the other and go on. There is really someone special out there for you.

Lindsey · 03-02-2007, 05:01 AM

It's so hard to believe there's someone out there for me. My friends are all getting married and having kids already and the one guy that I truly honestly thought I would be with forever is now gone. I'm not going to marry him. I'm not going to have kids with him. I'm not going to be part of his family anymore. I have to start all over and I am so sick of dating. I just don't want to try anymore at all. I'm too scared of getting hurt. I was like that before I dated him and my walls were all up and guys didn't mean anything to me, I would use them because I was so used to them just using me, and it's rare for me to find a guy that I actually LIKE. Me and him just clicked and I could be myself and he made me laugh so hard all the time and I always had a smile on my face when he was around. I didn't sleep last night. I'm still crying. I have to leave for work in half an hour.

Janet · 03-02-2007, 05:09 AM

My advice is to stop looking. Concentrate on other things, study, friends, family life in general. Let the next one find you!!! Be patient....good things come to those who wait.

Lindsey · 03-02-2007, 05:13 AM

This one did find me. I didn't want to date. I knew him for 4 months, we met on a snowboarding trip, and we were just friends. I had given up on dating back then and I came up here for the weekend just to visit and have a good time and I ended up falling for him so hard in 2 days. 9 months later I don't think I'll ever be whole again.

Gina · 03-02-2007, 05:26 AM

Lindsey, I am going to talk to you as if I were talking to my own daughter. Now you have to pull yourself together. It is ok to cry, grieving is part of the process, but remember that you are a young beautiful girl with your whole life ahead of you. This guy was not to Nice, like Kim mentioned letting you uproot yourself with no one familiar around. Never think he is better than you for he is not. This is life and as you get older you will realize that its not always easy. People break up after being married many, many, years and have shared a lifetime together. Be thankful it happened now and not when you married.

Lindsey you never know if its meant to be it will be. Maybe he is not ready for a steady relationship and realized this now. Pull yourself together and concretrate on your school and work. Trust me your heart will heal and you will move on. One day you will not remember his name.

Like Janet said be patient.. he will find you.. We are all here for you.

03-02-2007, 01:03 AM	#1
Mandy Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Who cares! Posts: 4,587	Ohhhh Lindsey, i'm so sorry this happend! Hugs to you, we are here if you want to talk! __________________ Many people will walk in and out your life, but only true friends leave footprints!

03-02-2007, 04:44 AM	#3
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	Sorry you're going through this Lindsay. I know it hurts, but keep busy. When you're busy, it's hard to think about our troubles. You're young, you have your whole life ahead of you, God has a plan, and this guy obviously isn't in it. Try to find strength to put one foot in front of the other and go on. There is really someone special out there for you. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

03-02-2007, 05:01 AM	#4
Lindsey Donating 4WT Talker Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Saskatchewan Posts: 3,764	It's so hard to believe there's someone out there for me. My friends are all getting married and having kids already and the one guy that I truly honestly thought I would be with forever is now gone. I'm not going to marry him. I'm not going to have kids with him. I'm not going to be part of his family anymore. I have to start all over and I am so sick of dating. I just don't want to try anymore at all. I'm too scared of getting hurt. I was like that before I dated him and my walls were all up and guys didn't mean anything to me, I would use them because I was so used to them just using me, and it's rare for me to find a guy that I actually LIKE. Me and him just clicked and I could be myself and he made me laugh so hard all the time and I always had a smile on my face when he was around. I didn't sleep last night. I'm still crying. I have to leave for work in half an hour. __________________ Lindsey "I don't mind living in a man's world as long as I can be a woman in it..." -Marilyn Monroe

03-02-2007, 05:09 AM	#5
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	My advice is to stop looking. Concentrate on other things, study, friends, family life in general. Let the next one find you!!! Be patient....good things come to those who wait. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

03-02-2007, 05:13 AM	#6
Lindsey Donating 4WT Talker Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Saskatchewan Posts: 3,764	This one did find me. I didn't want to date. I knew him for 4 months, we met on a snowboarding trip, and we were just friends. I had given up on dating back then and I came up here for the weekend just to visit and have a good time and I ended up falling for him so hard in 2 days. 9 months later I don't think I'll ever be whole again. __________________ Lindsey "I don't mind living in a man's world as long as I can be a woman in it..." -Marilyn Monroe

03-02-2007, 04:28 AM	#2
khardy57 Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 278	Ah, Lindsey - what a jerk he is! Especially after you uprooted your whole life for him. I'm so sorry this happened to you........

03-02-2007, 05:26 AM	#7
Gina Donating 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 6,025	Lindsey, I am going to talk to you as if I were talking to my own daughter. Now you have to pull yourself together. It is ok to cry, grieving is part of the process, but remember that you are a young beautiful girl with your whole life ahead of you. This guy was not to Nice, like Kim mentioned letting you uproot yourself with no one familiar around. Never think he is better than you for he is not. This is life and as you get older you will realize that its not always easy. People break up after being married many, many, years and have shared a lifetime together. Be thankful it happened now and not when you married. Lindsey you never know if its meant to be it will be. Maybe he is not ready for a steady relationship and realized this now. Pull yourself together and concretrate on your school and work. Trust me your heart will heal and you will move on. One day you will not remember his name. Like Janet said be patient.. he will find you.. We are all here for you.

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