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03-06-2007, 01:55 PM
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My husband doesn't like porn. He just doesn't get it & it doesn't do anything for him. He's more mental than visual. I watched porn a lot in college, we used to have porn parties & play drinking games & make fun of the dialect & plot. it was fun. I would watch it now with my husband, but it doesn't do anything for him so we don't. I don't have a problem with strip clubs either. I've gone with my husband many times & I wouldn't care if he wanted to just go with the boys. What's important to me is that I know what's going on & he's not sneakin around. I know he's mine & he's not gonna do anything with or leave me for a stripper.
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03-06-2007, 03:14 PM
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[QUOTE=Ponyup] we used to have porn parties & play drinking games & make fun of the dialect & plot. it was fun. [QUOTE]
This made me smile and laugh! 
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03-06-2007, 03:27 PM
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My hubby has never really been into porn. He has watched it with friends, but doesn't bring it into our house, and certainly understands why I don't get into it.
For us it's a matter of respect and that includes self respect. What does it do to a relatiponship when you have to hide things about yourself out of fear of upsetting your spouse? It isn't a good thing whether you're hiding porn, over-spending, or anything else you know they don't approve of. I think saying it's a "guy thing" is just an attempt to justify it. Not all guys are into it, and those whose wives aren't, need to respect her feelings as well if they expect to keep her happy. It's kinda sad to think anyone would risk a relationship for a fantasy. 
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03-07-2007, 06:38 AM
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I am a very secure woman and I am very secure with my marriage. As long as it's not interfering with our sex life or our relationship, then I have a "don't ask, don't tell" policy. I honestly have NO idea if he looks at the stuff or not, and since our relationship is great and our marriage is great, I'm not going to go sneak around on his computer to find out.
I completely agree with Rivermom in that if a man does look at porn, that certainly does not mean that he doesn't think his wife is beautiful or that he is going to cheat. Men just like looking at pretty women.
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03-19-2007, 04:09 PM
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porn to my hubby is like romance paperbacks to me.
he doesn't tell me i should stop reading my paperback smut and i don't tell him he shouldn't watch his porn. it's just different strokes for different folks. |
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