What about porn?

[cindy0721]

I thank you all for your opinions... but it's the way I feel about all of it.... It botheres me more so because when the topic is brought up he gets extremly defensive.... I have to ask myself why.... if he has nothing to hide, then why get defensive...?

[RLC12345678]

Originally Posted by cindy0721

I thank you all for your opinions... but it's the way I feel about all of it.... It botheres me more so because when the topic is brought up he gets extremly defensive.... I have to ask myself why.... if he has nothing to hide, then why get defensive...?

Honestly, he's probably defensive bc he's embarrased to talk about it with you. That's why my hubby and I have a don't ask, don't tell policy. We fight too much as it is. Since our marriage is going great right now, that is one thing I chose not to bring up. If our marriage starts getting rocky and I don't feel secure anymore, then maybe that WOULD be something that needed to be addressed, but right now, I just don't even want to know. I've never caught him looking at it and he doesn't do it in front of me if he looks at it at all. I honestly have no earthly idea if he does or not.