Divorce after 2 years?! :(

[AngieDoogles]

Originally Posted by RLC12345678

Hubby and I were friends with 2 couples who divorced after LESS than 2 years of marriage. I found with these 2, the LAST thing they wanted to do was TALK. They wanted to go out, have fun, meet new people, and not even so much as THINK about their ex. It took quite some time (months and months) before they wanted to talk about it. If it were me, I would not want to go to a friends house and "talk" about my divorce. Maybe you could plan a fun day for you two...like go to lunch and then go to the movies or have a girls night on the town. I would not even bring up the divorce or her ex unless your friend brought it up first and wanted to talk about it. ESPECIALLY since she knows that you know and are somewhat friends with her EX, I would not even bring his name up.

Thanks Rebecca! I'm never good at bringing up uncomfortable topics anyway. I prefer to let the other person bring it up if they want to talk about it, so that was kind of my plan. Maybe we'll just have a girl's night out or something to get her mind off of the situation. She seems to be having such a hard time...

But wow, 2 couples that were divorced after less than two years?! That's so sad! Hopefully everyone is doing better now and maybe a little wiser...

[RLC12345678]

I know these couples because the men are in medical school with my husband. Medical school is SO HARD. It really puts a HUGE strain on a marriage. Unfortunately, it never surprises me when someone in my hubby's class announces they are getting a divorce.

[AngieDoogles]

Originally Posted by RLC12345678

I know these couples because the men are in medical school with my husband. Medical school is SO HARD. It really puts a HUGE strain on a marriage. Unfortunately, it never surprises me when someone in my hubby's class announces they are getting a divorce.

Aww, that's SO sad! I'm sure being a med student and being married is just not a very good combination for most people. Both require so much time and attention. I just wish they could've gotten through that point and maybe things would've been better after graduation...

[Mandy]

Years ago a friend of mine got married, they didnt make a match at all. Her mother gave them 6 months, she said they wouldnt last longer, well they laster 9 months.