I know you said its hard to see the positive side but it seems like you see it more than you realize. I'm glad the fur babies are feeling better (& the spraying poop clean up has stopped). My thoughts are with your hubby & he drives & tries to deal with the emotions he must be feeling. I'm sure he knows you are there for him & when he gets home things will have calmed down enough so you can give him the time, attention & support you want to. When your horse gets home make sure you have a great relaxing ride for both of you. I'm sure she has missed you as well.