Needing Some Advice!

[Mandy]

Janet, im neutral in this and only giving you my thoughts on this, i dont know the person on YT.
Now if you really want this baby, why in the world would you let the oppertunity pass by? For the need of other people? Again, im on neutral ground here, and dont have a clue.
But in my opinion, would others come to you and ask for your "go ahead" before they make decisions?
I know there are confusing breeding discussions on YT, but i am sure people over there do look at both sides of the fence.

Dont let other people stop you from doing whats in your heart.

[rivermom]

Originally Posted by Mandy

Janet, im neutral in this and only giving you my thoughts on this, i dont know the person on YT.
Now if you really want this baby, why in the world would you let the oppertunity pass by? For the need of other people? Again, im on neutral ground here, and dont have a clue.
But in my opinion, would others come to you and ask for your "go ahead" before they make decisions?
I know there are confusing breeding discussions on YT, but i am sure people over there do look at both sides of the fence.

Dont let other people stop you from doing whats in your heart.

I agree w/ Mandy on this. Don't rush into anything. This is a lifetime commitment here. If you read over the posts on YT and see a red flag then investigate on your own. Ask questions, spend sometime interviewing other breeders, and go w/ your gut.

I believe the most important thing is to do your research as much as you can. There are a lot of reputable breeders out there who will take the time to tell you all that's involved about good lines and everything else inbetween.

After doing your research you might find that this isn't something that you really feel you want to do anyway. Remain objective to everything and good luck.

[Janet]

After much soul searching and more investigating, I've decided to pass on this puppy. I emailed the breeder and I was right in my decision. She didn't sound none too happy. I've had people call and show much interest in my puppies and then decide to go elsewhere....that's okay....and it doesn't upset me. I always wish them the best with their new baby...but it was obvious this breeder was ticked. So...I definitely made the right decision.

I am thrilled that so soon I have found another breeder....great recommendations and wonderful lines. Her litter is expected end of this month, first of next and well, when they are ready to go to their forever homes, it will be perfect timing. IF hubby has to have back surgery, getting a new puppy at this time would only add to the stress. So...toward the end of summer will work out great. I know things happen for a reason and this is truly a case of when one door closes another will open. Now I will OBSESS and go nuts waiting for time to pass. Sure hope she will have a couple of females to chose between...

[rivermom]

Originally Posted by Janet

After much soul searching and more investigating, I've decided to pass on this puppy. I emailed the breeder and I was right in my decision. She didn't sound none too happy. I've had people call and show much interest in my puppies and then decide to go elsewhere....that's okay....and it doesn't upset me. I always wish them the best with their new baby...but it was obvious this breeder was ticked. So...I definitely made the right decision.

I am thrilled that so soon I have found another breeder....great recommendations and wonderful lines. Her litter is expected end of this month, first of next and well, when they are ready to go to their forever homes, it will be perfect timing. IF hubby has to have back surgery, getting a new puppy at this time would only add to the stress. So...toward the end of summer will work out great. I know things happen for a reason and this is truly a case of when one door closes another will open. Now I will OBSESS and go nuts waiting for time to pass. Sure hope she will have a couple of females to chose between...

As you mentioned, everything happens for a reason Janet. Don't fret over the breeder being upset, as long as you feel you made a wise decision that's what matters.

I could only imagine how difficult it might be finding everything you want in a pup that you plan on using for breeding. There's sooo much involved and I can only imagine the half of it I am sure.

It will be exciting to see if she has the females you are wanting. Nothing like playing the "waiting game" huh?

[Tink]

Janet, I'm jumping in here rather late, but want to let you know I think you made the right choice. Enough can go wrong without knowingly starting out with worries over who you're dealing with. It's sad that some people don't play on the straight and narrow, so end up alienating themselves from the rest, but anytime you're in a business those are the people you really do need to avoid. Guilt by association is VERY hard to disprove, so you're wise to not even go there.

[Janet]

Thanks Tink. I feel I 've made the right decision. I had a couple others breeders I was interested in, but this one was so close and I was thinking (foolishly) of convenience. The one I've decided to go with is about a 5 hour drive, but it's worth it when I'm sure in my choice. I'm excited, but know I have to wait. Who knows...there may not be any females delivered....

[AngieDoogles]

Originally Posted by Janet

Thanks Tink. I feel I 've made the right decision. I had a couple others breeders I was interested in, but this one was so close and I was thinking (foolishly) of convenience. The one I've decided to go with is about a 5 hour drive, but it's worth it when I'm sure in my choice. I'm excited, but know I have to wait. Who knows...there may not be any females delivered....

I agree. Five hours of driving is nothing when it means you get to have peace of mind and a good start to your showing career! I'm glad you are happy with you decision and I can't wait to see your new little one this summer!!!