It's Time to be Worried!!

[Chandra Amaya]

Originally Posted by DianaB

I talked to her earlier today and she was taking it easy. She had spotted some more before she went to bed last night but for now it's stopped. It's so hard not to worry.

I had 2 miscarriages after my first child. I was told I would never be able to carry another child. I went back for my 6 week check up after the 2nd miscarriage to find out I was pg again. I laid on the couch depressed thinking I would lose another child for a month. at 4 months I finally started coming out of the depression. Today that daughter is 11 yrs old & very healthy. I also have 2 more that followed her. I know how scary it is. I've been there. But assure her & to let you know, that history & what doctors say about your chances of carrying mean nothing my last 3 kids are proof. My thoughts are with you both.

[Tink]

Well said Traci!

My oldest daughter had a terrible time with ovarian cysts and was told as a result, would likely have a lot of trouble concieving. She got pregnant right away, then miscarried. The dr told her it might have been a fluke and not to count on having babies. She now has 2 perfectly healthy daughters and proved the drs wrong.

They have to avoid giving false hope, but medicine is not an exact science, so they really don't know it all. God has plans of his own and even drs can't know what they are.

I'm still praying things turn out well for your daughter Diana.

[DianaB]

I don't understand why she's had so many miscarriages. She had one when she was first married and then she had two beautiful daughters. The oldest is 10 (born on my birthday!) and the youngest is 7. They would love to have a little boy to round out their family. In the past 2 or 3 years she's had a couple more miscarriages. She gets to about 10 weeks or so and that's when her trouble starts. The last one she hemmoraged so badly that they put her in the hospital. I was really worried about her then.

She's a wonderful mother and spends a lot of time doing things with her girls and another little one would be so very welcome. I haven't talked to her today but please keep her in your prayers in the days ahead because the bleeding could start again after a few days. I'm really claiming in my prayers that she and the baby will both be healthy. Thanks guys for your support and prayers.

[Chandra Amaya]

Originally Posted by DianaB

I don't understand why she's had so many miscarriages. She had one when she was first married and then she had two beautiful daughters. The oldest is 10 (born on my birthday!) and the youngest is 7. They would love to have a little boy to round out their family. In the past 2 or 3 years she's had a couple more miscarriages. She gets to about 10 weeks or so and that's when her trouble starts. The last one she hemmoraged so badly that they put her in the hospital. I was really worried about her then.

She's a wonderful mother and spends a lot of time doing things with her girls and another little one would be so very welcome. I haven't talked to her today but please keep her in your prayers in the days ahead because the bleeding could start again after a few days. I'm really claiming in my prayers that she and the baby will both be healthy. Thanks guys for your support and prayers.

Doctors could never give me an answer as to why it happened either. Even Angie doesn't know this but I've had 5 miscarriages altogether (all at around 8-10 weeks) & my 4 beautiful children. I think other than the loss not knowing why or how to keep it from happen again & the fear each time of will it happen this time are the worst. It's so much to go through. Her resting is the best thing she can do right now & try to read or something she enjoys to try to keep her mind off of the fear.

[AngieDoogles]

Diana, I just wanted to let you know that I was thinking about you and your daughter today. I hope everything is going well.

[Janet]

Haven't seen any updates recently, I'm praying everything is alright .

[Passionfruition]

Oh wow, I hope everything is ok. Miscarriages are so hard...I've seen with a few friends in the past year or so go through them and it's so emotional and physically wrenching. I will pray everything goes smoothly this time! I can imagine how it would be hard for you - you are such a caring mom. I hope my Mom will be just as supportive and by my side when I get pregnant (one day, not soon) as you are to your daughter!