so awkward...

[RLC12345678]

Originally Posted by Lindsey

Finally I got through! My friend and I spent some time together this weekend and she would not stop apologizing and begging me not to be mad at her, saying she would do anything. So I said okay, thinking I'll just see how this goes. Last night my roommate slept here, and she didn't come over. She told me today that he was begging her yesterday to come over and she told him "If you want anything from me, you can come here. I promised Lindsey I wouldn't go there anymore, and she might be just a roommate to you, but she's the only girlfriend I have here and I don't want to mess that up!"
I also let her know how much it hurt me when she used to talk about being with my boyfriend, and she apologized for that, too. She said she's so happy for us, and she's glad that she was part of bringing us together. If she knew the future at the time she was with him, she said she wouldn't have touched him.
Soooo I guess she's a better friend than I gave her credit for last week. I guess I'm kind of happy to have her back

I'm so happy to hear that she is finally respecting your feelings. She honestly probably just didn't know how you felt about the situation until you spoke with her about it. Now that she knows that you were upset, she is trying to correct her wrongdoings. Hope things continue to get better.

[Janet]

I'm so glad things are working out. COMMUNICATION is the key to almost any disagreement. If thinks can't get worked out, at least all the cards were on the table.

[Lindsey]

Me again! I thought the whole situation was better, but it's not. She said she was going to not come over all last week, but that only lasted monday, tuesday, and wednesday. My roommate will NOT sleep at her house, and apparently she will not go without sex. At least I had the weekend here alone to catch up on sleep. Last night I was just about to go to bed when I heard someone trying to turn the doorknob on my front door! It was locked, so then they knocked. I answered and it was her again. She came in and plopped down on a chair and made some small talk, and then went straight downstairs. So instead of going to bed, I had to sit up for a couple hours with the tv turned up loud so I couldn't hear anything. I woke up early and went to morning classes, and now I'm home for lunch and my roommate STILL isn't awake. He's so behind but he's going to ask for my notes and everything to catch up, and I'm too nice to say no I think I have to have a nap now so I can be awake for the afternoon.

[2tiredmom]

Just a thought maybe you should change the lock on your doors. But then she would just stand out banging on the door wanting in. Sorry bad idea.
I feel for you. But if your losing so much sleep you really do need to do something. It's not healthy for you to go without sleep.
2tiredmom

[Ponyup]

I'd threaten to tell everyone in class what's going on if they don't knock it off. They are not respecting you as a friend so why should you have to respect them.

Plus why don't they want people to know anyway. When I was dating I refused to date anyone that wanted our relationship kept a secret.

[Lindsey]

Originally Posted by Ponyup

I'd threaten to tell everyone in class what's going on if they don't knock it off. They are not respecting you as a friend so why should you have to respect them.

Plus why don't they want people to know anyway. When I was dating I refused to date anyone that wanted our relationship kept a secret.

I think my roommate wants it a secret more than the girl does. They said they don't want anyone to make a big deal out of it, but I don't know that anyone would. Well, i take that back. It's a class of adults that act 13. They think it's hilarious to sit there and fart all class! To the extent that last week they ended up making the third girl in our class, who is pregnant, run to the bathroom and throw up. They thought it was the funniest thing in the world! I can't wait to get my diploma and get out of there.
Anyways, the girl who's "secretly dating" my roommate has a bit of a reputation. She has totally built it up herself though. Today in class she was telling the guys sitting around her that she'll lift up her shirt for any guy or girl offering to buy her a shot. Lately she's been mentioning him a lot around other people and hinting that they're together, but not when he's around. I think she wants people to know but it's an embarassment to him.

[Janet]

Originally Posted by Lindsey

I think my roommate wants it a secret more than the girl does. They said they don't want anyone to make a big deal out of it, but I don't know that anyone would. Well, i take that back. It's a class of adults that act 13. They think it's hilarious to sit there and fart all class! To the extent that last week they ended up making the third girl in our class, who is pregnant, run to the bathroom and throw up. They thought it was the funniest thing in the world! I can't wait to get my diploma and get out of there.
Anyways, the girl who's "secretly dating" my roommate has a bit of a reputation. She has totally built it up herself though. Today in class she was telling the guys sitting around her that she'll lift up her shirt for any guy or girl offering to buy her a shot. Lately she's been mentioning him a lot around other people and hinting that they're together, but not when he's around. I think she wants people to know but it's an embarassment to him.

Why in the world would she say that about lifting her shirt? She really isn't impressing anyone!! She should be embarassed to show her face!