I think I was bad!!!

rivermom · 03-28-2007, 04:46 AM

It's unfortunate that our men who snore can't help it. LOL ~ It's not like they go to bed each night thinking "I can't wait to start snoring and wake my wife up!"

I would think it's almost more harmful to them in the long run. Lack of oxygen, not sleeping as well, etc....

What's funny Janet you might notice. Is when you do both decide to sleep in sepearte bedrooms, you might find you still don't sleep well and wake up earlier than expected. Then again maybe not...LOL

My husband had those night snoring bands also that attach to the nose. Robert said it bugged him too much to wear it. Maybe your husband has found this out also?

I am sure the two of you will work out the sleeping arrangements and find what works best for the two of you.

"Sweet Dreams!!"

Mandy · 03-28-2007, 04:50 AM

The sound of snoring can be VERY annoying! The thing is, i find that my hubs snores more when he is stressed for some reason, i have kicked and poked him in the past, and awww - when i wake him up, he always says "sorry lovey" and turns around, so i can NOT get mad at him for snoring LOL

Tink · 03-28-2007, 05:11 AM

Janet, my hubby snores too, so I know how crazy it can drive you in the middle of the night; and MINE is only home one or 2 nights a week!

I think if you want to sleep in separate rooms, then go for it. It certainly isn't helping your relationship or your health to sleep (or NOT sleep) next to his snoring. You might find you like him better once you're rested up and not resenting him for destroying your rest.

HUGS

Chandra Amaya · 03-28-2007, 05:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Tink

Janet, my hubby snores too, so I know how crazy it can drive you in the middle of the night; and MINE is only home one or 2 nights a week!

I think if you want to sleep in separate rooms, then go for it. It certainly isn't helping your relationship or your health to sleep (or NOT sleep) next to his snoring. You might find you like him better once you're rested up and not resenting him for destroying your rest.

HUGS

Very well said Tink.
I have a big problem remembering to use any treatments I've bought or take any meds I should. Maybe he has the same problem, he just forgets to use the things he has to help?

Janet · 03-28-2007, 06:12 AM

I'm sure he just forgets to use it. I don't think he'd be a jerk on purpose...at least I don't think he would.

I do sleep great when the boys are camping with scouts. I just sleep so much better and feel so refreshed in the morning. I'm not just going MOVE HIM OUT, we will discuss it (I'm still getting my way) LOL, but he'll at least think he agreed to it.

He has woke up before after I've started crying at being so tired and not able to go back to sleep. So he knows it's very important and how if affects me. I honestly do believe it will make things better in just everyday life, to have more restful sleep for the both of us.

RLC12345678 · 03-28-2007, 06:28 AM

Oh, you haven't seen mad until you've seen me when I've been woken up. I don't know what it is, but this beast just comes out. Hubby knows not to mess with me when I'm sleeping. If he snored, he would have to nip that in the bud REAL quick. I am such a monster when I don't get enough sleep.

Janet, I don't blame you for getting upset about the snoring. For the sake of your marriage and your rest, he should get that under control or go sleep in another room.

Janet · 03-28-2007, 06:33 AM

Thank you so much Rebecca!!! You don't know how much I appreciate knowing I'm not the only one. I was beginning to feel like a real b****, ya know? I don't mean to, but when my sleep is interrupted like that, it's horrible.

03-28-2007, 04:46 AM	#1
rivermom Donating 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Tontitown, Arkansas Posts: 2,475	It's unfortunate that our men who snore can't help it. LOL ~ It's not like they go to bed each night thinking "I can't wait to start snoring and wake my wife up!" I would think it's almost more harmful to them in the long run. Lack of oxygen, not sleeping as well, etc.... What's funny Janet you might notice. Is when you do both decide to sleep in sepearte bedrooms, you might find you still don't sleep well and wake up earlier than expected. Then again maybe not...LOL My husband had those night snoring bands also that attach to the nose. Robert said it bugged him too much to wear it. Maybe your husband has found this out also? I am sure the two of you will work out the sleeping arrangements and find what works best for the two of you. "Sweet Dreams!!" __________________ ~_/> , /\/\ ,,, Sheryl When I grow up I want to be a horse whisperer!

03-28-2007, 04:50 AM	#2
Mandy Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Who cares! Posts: 4,587	The sound of snoring can be VERY annoying! The thing is, i find that my hubs snores more when he is stressed for some reason, i have kicked and poked him in the past, and awww - when i wake him up, he always says "sorry lovey" and turns around, so i can NOT get mad at him for snoring LOL __________________ Many people will walk in and out your life, but only true friends leave footprints!

03-28-2007, 05:11 AM	#3
Tink Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Rural Wisconsin Posts: 3,707	Janet, my hubby snores too, so I know how crazy it can drive you in the middle of the night; and MINE is only home one or 2 nights a week! I think if you want to sleep in separate rooms, then go for it. It certainly isn't helping your relationship or your health to sleep (or NOT sleep) next to his snoring. You might find you like him better once you're rested up and not resenting him for destroying your rest. HUGS __________________ 'A simple way to take measure of a country is to look at how many want in.. And how many want out.' England 's Prime Minister Tony Blair'

03-28-2007, 06:12 AM	#5
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	I'm sure he just forgets to use it. I don't think he'd be a jerk on purpose...at least I don't think he would. I do sleep great when the boys are camping with scouts. I just sleep so much better and feel so refreshed in the morning. I'm not just going MOVE HIM OUT, we will discuss it (I'm still getting my way) LOL, but he'll at least think he agreed to it. He has woke up before after I've started crying at being so tired and not able to go back to sleep. So he knows it's very important and how if affects me. I honestly do believe it will make things better in just everyday life, to have more restful sleep for the both of us. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1 Last edited by Janet; 03-28-2007 at 06:15 AM.

03-28-2007, 06:28 AM	#6
RLC12345678 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 1,614	Oh, you haven't seen mad until you've seen me when I've been woken up. I don't know what it is, but this beast just comes out. Hubby knows not to mess with me when I'm sleeping. If he snored, he would have to nip that in the bud REAL quick. I am such a monster when I don't get enough sleep. Janet, I don't blame you for getting upset about the snoring. For the sake of your marriage and your rest, he should get that under control or go sleep in another room. __________________ Rebecca "To whom much is given, much is expected." ~Luke 12:48

03-28-2007, 06:33 AM	#7
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	Thank you so much Rebecca!!! You don't know how much I appreciate knowing I'm not the only one. I was beginning to feel like a real b****, ya know? I don't mean to, but when my sleep is interrupted like that, it's horrible. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

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