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Old 04-06-2007, 12:25 PM   #1
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I'm not getting married without premarital councelling. I'm a stickler about certain things, he's gotta be a Christian, he's gotta talk to my dad before he asks me to marry him, he's gotta be able to pay the bills while I'm in school if I get married before I graduate, he's gotta be honest and not keep important things from me, and he's gotta agree to premarital counceling.

I may not have known the guy I'm with right now for a long time, but we agreed in the beginning to be completely honest with eachother and I know I've got a really good grasp as to who he is, but I think councelling would be imperative cause if we get married I know there are some things that we're not going to think about discussing.

Not to mention I think it would help with those prewedding jitters because you'll have a good idea of how your future may be like. If you don't feel like you should marry them after you've had counceling, then don't. Like the others said, I think that it would stop alot of couples from jumping into marriage if they went through premarital councelling.
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Old 04-06-2007, 12:29 PM   #2
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I think you have a proud mother, Lissa.
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Old 04-06-2007, 12:47 PM   #3
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I am the way I am because of her, she raised me well
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Old 04-06-2007, 01:10 PM   #4
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I am the way I am because of her, she raised me well
Aww, how sweet!
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