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04-07-2007, 07:25 AM
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Something else I thought of . It could very well end your friendship. It's so hard for women to compare parenting styles anyway, I think, because we all think we're right. LOL, but how hard will it be for you to see this child grow with them and you disagree with how they raise him/her? Will you be able to stay quiet? That is why I suggested counceling. You've got to make sure you can handle the BEFORE and AFTER.
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04-07-2007, 01:30 PM
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Wow, some very good thoughts from all of you..this is exactly the reason I'm soliciting opinions because alot of people can think of things you never thought of yourself.
My husband was the first one to come up with the idea, believe it or not! So he's on board. We've talked about it alot. We have not discussed it with the couple yet at all. I don't even know if they would be open to it. I wanted to research all I could before (and IF) I even broach the subject. I, too, am worried about bonding. I had three pregnancies....I knew those babies intimately before they were born..their personalities, their patterns. One thing that is positive in my favor is that I have my family. I have three teenagers...I don't want to raise any more children. And, as my husband pointed out jokingly, "hey, if you start thinking a baby would be nice to have around, just remember they become teenagers REAL QUICK!" I am in great health. I have never smoked, rarely drink and am athletic and perfect weight. I would agree that counseling would be a must to make sure this is really something we could do. I am going to continue to research it....It is a major, major comitment. |
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04-07-2007, 01:58 PM
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"hey, if you start thinking a baby would be nice to have around, just remember they become teenagers REAL QUICK!"
Lol how true. I have 4 ranging from 14 down to 2. Man if they would only be babies forever. Best of luck to you in whatever you choose. 
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04-07-2007, 02:11 PM
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Its awesome of you to want to do this for your friends!! All i can say is "WOW" ... but think it thru very carefully. Best of luck on your decision!!
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04-07-2007, 03:35 PM
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Best of luck to you, the rest of the ladies said mostly what I feel. Remember it may be hard to give up a baby that you carried for 9 mos. and you bond with. Think it over real good and I am sure that your gut and heart will lead you into the right direction.. Good luck!!
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