am i right?

[rivermom]

I agree with everyone else. Communication is the best key. I think that if you don't discuss this with her it will only build inside you, then possibly do more damage in the long run.

Hope it all works out for you.

[Marilyn]

You've received some good advice here. I'd try to talk to her and then really listen to what she has to say. You need to work to maintain relationships, and the one with your mom is special. She won't be around forever.

[Jlynn]

Talk to her. Don't let this fester. She's your mom and your relationship is more important, you need to discuss this.

well ladies we discussed it and i have just had a phone call from my mum who has saod she is disgusted that my husband thinks that she would do us out of money and she said she will never call again or come around again and slammed the phone down on me, i did not once accuse her of that i just was not informed of her reasons the did not communicate well, you see the pups were bottle fed i know that is hard work, i would have helped i offered to feed them while they had days out during the summer but was turned down, my bitch also had pups at the time 5 in all and the bitch was howling at times upto 3/4 times a night and messing so iwas sleep deprived too she continued with this until the pups were sold, so i could not help much with the pups with feeding them at night, because i had my own probs with my girlie, mum took this as i was not interested in the litter and not helping so i was not included, i am gutted that it has come to this

[Janet]

I am sorry to hear it didn't turn out well. BUT for future reference....in a dispute between two people...you should never, ever, bring another person into it, in this case your husband. That's why whenever I've fought with my husband, I would never tell my in-laws or my mother. They don't forget and it bites you BIG TIME in the butt. Live and learn!!

normally i would not have brought hubby into the mix but he made it obvious he was pissed off about something the other day so she kinda knew he was angry about something he was also angry with me over the lack of communication and not asking about the money share but i felt uncomfortable about it because shes my mum i did not mean to insult her i was not rude at all bit she was rude to me slamming the phone down and shouting

[Janet]

Maybe you can wait a couple of days and send her a nice letter explaining. But keep it between the two of you. Just a thought!!