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Old 03-22-2007, 11:48 AM   #16
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awww atleast it was a wonderful movie & much better than the song I had playing ..."Comfortably numb" by Pink Floyd....not much of a romantic song lol

LMAO!!!
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Old 03-22-2007, 11:52 AM   #17
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I was 14 at the time and met the boy who later turned into my first husband. He was 18 at the time. Well, I tagged along with him and my brother as they went to play raquetball. Inside the raquetball room the lights went out when the timer went off. It was dark and then smooch right on the lips. I remember my heart beating so fast I wanted to pass out.

I lost my virginity after watching the movie Endless Love at the theaters. We went and parked the car as we normally did to make out, LOL. Nothing like loosing your virginity in the back seat of a 69 Valiant. It had push button gears and was the oldest car Id ever seen in my life. I was still 14 at this time.

Well....later as with most anyone, unprotected sex leads to getting pregnant. I did at the age of 16 and married when I was 17. I have no regrets for that story in my life because I have my oldest son Brian whom I love very much. Abortion was NEVER an option for me.

Honestly I think the only thing I can remember about having sex for that first time is it kinda hurt. It's been so many years now and I don't remember if it was what I had expected or not.

LOL LOL LOL... i remember the "hurting" part too well. And remember thinking that, if its gonna be like this, it wont be my lasting game
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Old 03-22-2007, 01:11 PM   #18
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My first kiss was at 16 or 17. I was SOO NERVOUS! I had built it up to be this big ordeal and made myself terrified of it! haha..so weird. It was with a guy that I ended up "putting up with" for 4 more years.

My other first was when I was 21..about 2 years ago. It was with my now boyfriend. We were each other's firsts. I had always planned on waiting til marriage but it was prefect! We are still together (2 years on the 27th of March!!) and he means the world to me. He is the more caring, genuine person I have ever met!

I think Ive set the record for being the oldest with both my firsts!
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Old 03-22-2007, 04:10 PM   #19
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Well I was young and I wasn't really sure if married couples did it every single night or what! Heck I was dreading going to bed there for awhile and then always felt the next morning like I was walking weird and if anyone would notice....
lol i still walk like that janet lets just say my other half wasnt at the end of the queue when they were handing out mens making babies bits lol
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Old 03-30-2007, 08:48 PM   #20
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my first kiss i was 15 and it was with my first real boyfriend. it was better than i had expected... it made me dizzy... and all that stuff they talk about in movies.

my first time i was 16 and with the same guy. not all that great... it was in his bedroom with his dad in the next room and the door open. and it hurt. it lasted about a whole 2 minutes.

i was with the guy for 3 years... so i think it was all worth it... nthing i regret
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Old 04-03-2007, 06:29 PM   #21
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LOL, this thread is fun to read. So, since I enjoyed everyone else's responses, here's mine:

My first kiss was at prom with a boy named James. I was 16 and in the 10th grade, and he was 17 and in the 11th. I was so nervous b/c I had braces and kinda felt silly that I was 16 and never had really kissed (made out/with tongue, etc.) before. It was fun and I told a friend it was "squishy". I, like many girls, fell in "love" with the first boy I kissed just for the fact that he was my 1st kiss, though he cheated on me a couple months later and I was HEARTBROKEN. lol. I recently found his profile on myspace and saw he got married in December, and I wish him nothing but the best. Funny how much we all grow up between 16 and 26!

Though I kissed many boys after James, my first time having sex was on my wedding night with my husband Eli - we were both 22. It was very strange....the wedding was a stressful process, though we were VERY happy to be married to one another (and still are) but I guess what can you expect the first time when it's the first time for both of you? LOL. But, of course, we have discovered that it gets better with practice. We both consider ourselves very lucky to have found, and waited, for one another, though I know most people don't anymore.
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Old 04-03-2007, 07:00 PM   #22
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My first kiss was when I was dating my first love at the tender age of 14 1/2 . I remember being so nervous that I asked one of my girls friends older sister what to do? I never made out with a boy.. She was three years older than I and was hystercial , She explained how to french kiss and when I went out with my boyfriend for the first time I did it but I was very nervous.. lol. He was a doll.. too bad that we didn't married, but its funny I ran into him a few years ago and he said that I always hold a special place in his . I guess first loves leave an imprint lol
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Old 04-05-2007, 08:29 AM   #23
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This is my first post on this site. Figures it would be on this thread!

My first kiss was at about 12 with a boy named Eddie.
He asked me to come around the side of the building because he wanted to talk to me. When we got there, I asked him what he wanted to talk to me about and he answered "kissing talking." I nearly fainted at how cool I thought he was!

My other first was at 17 with my first love, Gary. I'll never forget it and am so grateful that my first time was with someone I loved. He cried - it was the sweetest thing.

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Old 04-05-2007, 09:38 AM   #24
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First kiss was with a guy named Matt. Wasn't really anything special. Other first, with my husband and that was definitely an incredible experience that has only gotten better with time.

(Yikes, my mom can see this...lol)
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Old 04-05-2007, 09:41 AM   #25
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First kiss was with a guy named Matt. Wasn't really anything special. Other first, with my husband and that was definitely an incredible experience that has only gotten better with time.

(Yikes, my mom can see this...lol)
maybe she will miss this one
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Old 04-05-2007, 09:42 AM   #26
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maybe she will miss this one
We can only hope, right? LoL!
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Old 04-06-2007, 08:04 AM   #27
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First kiss was with a guy named Matt. Wasn't really anything special. Other first, with my husband and that was definitely an incredible experience that has only gotten better with time.

(Yikes, my mom can see this...lol)

That' so funny! Oh well, it was with your husband after all.

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Old 04-28-2007, 11:43 AM   #28
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I got my first real kiss from my high school boyfriend Mario when I was 15 (he was 17).. It was Friday October 13, 1995 .. We had just seen the movie Seven and his sister dropped me off and drove around the corner.. Mario kissed.. I hit him because it was so unexpected.. It got better though!! We wound up dating for 8 motnhs!!

My first time having sex was when I was 20.. I was planning on waiting for marriage but then I just got tired of waiting so I decided to do it with a guy i was seeing in College.. His name was Tim... We had been on and off for 2 years and he knew i wanted to wait and he never pressured me.. On day I just was like I wanna do it!! That was it... I was one of my last friends to lose my virginity but it was worth waiting for
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Old 04-28-2007, 11:57 AM   #29
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My first kiss was with my high school boyfriend Mario (I was 15, he was 17).. It was on Friday, October 13, 2005!! We had just seen the movie SEven and his sister dropped us off and he kissed me.. It was really nice.. I really liked him.. We dated for 7 months until he wound up leaving for college

My first hime having sex was with a guy i was seeing off and on for 2 years up at college.. I told him i wanted to wait until I knew for sure i was gonna be with someone for life.. He was so sweet never pressured me and finally after 2 years i was like, i wanna see what the big deal about sex and i did it.. I have no regrets although sometimes i wished i had waited!!
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Old 04-28-2007, 12:55 PM   #30
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My first kiss was on Friday, October 13, 1995 with my high school boyfriend Mario (i was 15 and he was 17)... We had just seen the movie Seven.. His sister dropped us off at my house to say goodnight and he leaned in a kissed me... Man, I was in 7th heaven!! We dated for 7 months before breaking up when he went to college!!

My first time having sex was when I was 20 with a guy I was seeing off and on for 2 years in college.. He know that I really wanted to wait for someone i was going to be with forever.. He was so sweet and totally respected my wishes... My couriousity wound up getting the best of me!! He was so sweet tried to amke it as romantic as possible.. I have no regrets though!!
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