this is getting out of control!!!

Janet · 05-12-2007, 03:46 AM

Marilyn is right. We didn't do that and it's not good now after 32 years. Please find a way to resolve this, either through a non-interrupted talk stating your expectations and asking for his, or through counceling with a professional. I would hate for you to be in the position I am in. Life is too short and before you know it, years have gone by. Communicatin, not games is what gets couples through the most difficult times, if love is the foundation.

AngieDoogles · 05-12-2007, 04:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Janet

Marilyn is right. We didn't do that and it's not good now after 32 years. Please find a way to resolve this, either through a non-interrupted talk stating your expectations and asking for his, or through counceling with a professional. I would hate for you to be in the position I am in. Life is too short and before you know it, years have gone by. Communicatin, not games is what gets couples through the most difficult times, if love is the foundation.

I agree. I hope you are able to work through this very quickly Mandee and in a way that will help situations like this not be so bad in the future. Marriage can be tough sometimes, but it can also be such a huge blessing. I hope that these arguments will not keep you from enjoying your marriage.

Mandy · 05-12-2007, 11:00 AM

I hope you guys can work thru this. Communication is the key, dont leave it to linger Toodles.

Ponyup · 05-14-2007, 05:32 AM

Okay, I know you said no advice, but i think this might work. Have you said you are sorry yet? I know you don't think you did anything wrong, but for whatever reason you did hurt his feelings. If you don't play games then don't play games. Walk right up to him & say: I know you are hurt about me getting a tattoo. I'm sorry I did not talk to you before getting it, but it is here now. I really like it & it makes me happy. Please talk to me about what your feeling & what I can do to make this better so we can move on & enjoy our lives.

And trust me we all went through this. The first 18 months of my marriage I was miserable, but things did get better. Once you figure out how to interact with each other it will get better. Just be patience, you too will figure out how to work with one another.

05-12-2007, 03:46 AM	#1
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	Marilyn is right. We didn't do that and it's not good now after 32 years. Please find a way to resolve this, either through a non-interrupted talk stating your expectations and asking for his, or through counceling with a professional. I would hate for you to be in the position I am in. Life is too short and before you know it, years have gone by. Communicatin, not games is what gets couples through the most difficult times, if love is the foundation. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

05-12-2007, 11:00 AM	#3
Mandy Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Who cares! Posts: 4,587	I hope you guys can work thru this. Communication is the key, dont leave it to linger Toodles. __________________ Many people will walk in and out your life, but only true friends leave footprints!

05-14-2007, 05:32 AM	#4
Ponyup Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Indiana Posts: 659	Okay, I know you said no advice, but i think this might work. Have you said you are sorry yet? I know you don't think you did anything wrong, but for whatever reason you did hurt his feelings. If you don't play games then don't play games. Walk right up to him & say: I know you are hurt about me getting a tattoo. I'm sorry I did not talk to you before getting it, but it is here now. I really like it & it makes me happy. Please talk to me about what your feeling & what I can do to make this better so we can move on & enjoy our lives. And trust me we all went through this. The first 18 months of my marriage I was miserable, but things did get better. Once you figure out how to interact with each other it will get better. Just be patience, you too will figure out how to work with one another.

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