am i right?

well ladies we discussed it and i have just had a phone call from my mum who has saod she is disgusted that my husband thinks that she would do us out of money and she said she will never call again or come around again and slammed the phone down on me, i did not once accuse her of that i just was not informed of her reasons the did not communicate well, you see the pups were bottle fed i know that is hard work, i would have helped i offered to feed them while they had days out during the summer but was turned down, my bitch also had pups at the time 5 in all and the bitch was howling at times upto 3/4 times a night and messing so iwas sleep deprived too she continued with this until the pups were sold, so i could not help much with the pups with feeding them at night, because i had my own probs with my girlie, mum took this as i was not interested in the litter and not helping so i was not included, i am gutted that it has come to this

[Janet]

I am sorry to hear it didn't turn out well. BUT for future reference....in a dispute between two people...you should never, ever, bring another person into it, in this case your husband. That's why whenever I've fought with my husband, I would never tell my in-laws or my mother. They don't forget and it bites you BIG TIME in the butt. Live and learn!!

normally i would not have brought hubby into the mix but he made it obvious he was pissed off about something the other day so she kinda knew he was angry about something he was also angry with me over the lack of communication and not asking about the money share but i felt uncomfortable about it because shes my mum i did not mean to insult her i was not rude at all bit she was rude to me slamming the phone down and shouting

[Janet]

Maybe you can wait a couple of days and send her a nice letter explaining. But keep it between the two of you. Just a thought!!

thank you for the advice at the moment i feel real sad so i will think on it bless you janet you are a great help

[Amber_lv]

I'm so sorry that this didn't go well for you mabey just give her some time to cool off and don't bring up the money to her it's not worth losing a relationship with your mom over. Sometimes we have to swallow our pride to make a mends with our parents i have had to do this a lot but in the end all that matters is your relationship stays intact. Just tell her you didn't mean to hurt her feelings and your sorry but you just wanted to tell her how you felt moms are hard sometimes but i'm sure she will come around. We are here for you ok.

[Mandy]

As Janet said, never ever tell your parents about a fight between the two of you, they never forget it, when we have long forgotten it, it's still as clear as daylight in their memory. Keep your hubby well away of any conflict you have with your Mom.
Give her a few days, then call her or write her a nice card, let her know that this is not what you want.