My best friend

Mandy · 06-11-2007, 11:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Janet

I'm so glad she has made her decision. We can preach to our friends, relatives...whoever about why they should never let someone treat them that way, but until they see it and are ready to do something about it...it falls on deaf ears. Good for her!!! Now on to a better life!!!!

Exactly

Best wishes to your friend.

AngieDoogles · 06-11-2007, 01:44 PM

I'm so glad to hear that your friend got out of a bad relationship. That's always such a hard step to take and she should be commended for her strength and bravery!

toodles · 06-11-2007, 07:19 PM

he is being sooooooo mean to her. he swears up and down that she left him for someone else but she isn't like that. he should know that. he just has a guilty concience because that is how he is...he is a cheater. he is constantly leaving her mean voicemails asking "how does __________'s bed feel??" it's just stupid. I told her that she just needs to tell him...it is no longer ANY of your business what I do with my personal life, now lose my number before I get a restraining order.

she is really at that point. She is staying so strong tho. I am so happy for her. I have not seen her this happy and "free" in a very long time. I have my friend back

Mandy · 06-12-2007, 03:17 AM

Its so nice to see friends happy. Glad she is dealing with it so smoothly! She definatly needs to tell him to get lost, or just ignore all hes sms's!

judy · 06-12-2007, 06:59 AM

Good for her! It's so hard to get out of that syndrome. It's so good that she has you for support.

DianaB · 06-12-2007, 09:26 AM

Someone once told me that we tend to think that people are just like us. So if you're a liar then you always think that you are lied to. If you're a trusting person then you think that you can always trust everyone. If you sleep around then you tend to think that everyone else is doing it too. I've always thought that was very interesting and how often it seems to be true.

It sounds like she is really through with this guy. Good for her!!! She doesn't deserve this guy bullying her so a restraining order may be something that she needs to keep in mind.

AngieDoogles · 06-12-2007, 05:17 PM

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Originally Posted by toodles

I have my friend back

That's wonderful Mandee! I'm sure you are both so happy to be able to be friends again...

toodles · 06-17-2007, 06:56 PM

just an update...

she has definitely separated from him...and she has basically just shut him down. I have spent a lot of time with her lately and she is so happy these days. I am just happy for her. She seems 10 years younger these days. It's great.

Thanks for all the supportive thoughts..you guys are all very sweet

Janet · 06-18-2007, 03:14 AM

I hate to see any marriage dissolved, but sometimes it just has to be. Her well being and sanity was at stake and it sounds like she gave it her all. Glad she's doing better and you have got to be a great friend to see her through this.

Tink · 06-18-2007, 10:38 AM

I'm so glad she had the will power and strength to get away from that man. I hope she finds life is a whole lot better without him!

She's lucky to have such a great friend as you to support her.

06-11-2007, 01:44 PM	#2
AngieDoogles Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 6,509	I'm so glad to hear that your friend got out of a bad relationship. That's always such a hard step to take and she should be commended for her strength and bravery! __________________ "Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover." ~MT

06-11-2007, 07:19 PM	#3
toodles Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Nashville, Tn Posts: 243	he is being sooooooo mean to her. he swears up and down that she left him for someone else but she isn't like that. he should know that. he just has a guilty concience because that is how he is...he is a cheater. he is constantly leaving her mean voicemails asking "how does __________'s bed feel??" it's just stupid. I told her that she just needs to tell him...it is no longer ANY of your business what I do with my personal life, now lose my number before I get a restraining order. she is really at that point. She is staying so strong tho. I am so happy for her. I have not seen her this happy and "free" in a very long time. I have my friend back __________________ Give me coffee & I'll be your buddy 4ever "Toodles" Mandee...AKA-Pepe Mint on YT

06-12-2007, 03:17 AM	#4
Mandy Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Who cares! Posts: 4,587	Its so nice to see friends happy. Glad she is dealing with it so smoothly! She definatly needs to tell him to get lost, or just ignore all hes sms's! __________________ Many people will walk in and out your life, but only true friends leave footprints!

06-12-2007, 06:59 AM	#5
judy Donating 4WT Yakker Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Denver, NY Posts: 8,097	Good for her! It's so hard to get out of that syndrome. It's so good that she has you for support. __________________ *Judy*

06-12-2007, 09:26 AM	#6
DianaB Moderator Donating 4WT 13K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Kansas Posts: 16,069	Someone once told me that we tend to think that people are just like us. So if you're a liar then you always think that you are lied to. If you're a trusting person then you think that you can always trust everyone. If you sleep around then you tend to think that everyone else is doing it too. I've always thought that was very interesting and how often it seems to be true. It sounds like she is really through with this guy. Good for her!!! She doesn't deserve this guy bullying her so a restraining order may be something that she needs to keep in mind. __________________ ´¨) ¸.•´¸.•´¨) ¸.•*¨) (¸.•´ (¸.•` ¤ Diana Baker ✞ You and I are friends....... Always remember that if you fall I will pick you up...... After I stop laughing!!!

06-17-2007, 06:56 PM	#8
toodles Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Nashville, Tn Posts: 243	just an update... she has definitely separated from him...and she has basically just shut him down. I have spent a lot of time with her lately and she is so happy these days. I am just happy for her. She seems 10 years younger these days. It's great. Thanks for all the supportive thoughts..you guys are all very sweet __________________ Give me coffee & I'll be your buddy 4ever "Toodles" Mandee...AKA-Pepe Mint on YT

06-18-2007, 03:14 AM	#9
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	I hate to see any marriage dissolved, but sometimes it just has to be. Her well being and sanity was at stake and it sounds like she gave it her all. Glad she's doing better and you have got to be a great friend to see her through this. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

06-18-2007, 10:38 AM	#10
Tink Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Rural Wisconsin Posts: 3,707	I'm so glad she had the will power and strength to get away from that man. I hope she finds life is a whole lot better without him! She's lucky to have such a great friend as you to support her. __________________ 'A simple way to take measure of a country is to look at how many want in.. And how many want out.' England 's Prime Minister Tony Blair'

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