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06-29-2007, 10:25 PM
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I am really sorry that you are facing this. My initial thought is, if you have confrunted him already about this 'friend' of his, and he has blown it off, and told you it's nothing (even though it doesn't sound like nothing) he's not going to tell you the truth if you have a nice sit down talk with him. It's hard to judge, not knowing him, but from what you have described, I doubt it's an innocent friendship. I'm so sorry that this is happening to you. Better to get out sooner than later, and just know that he's not worth your time if he would do such a thing to you.
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06-30-2007, 03:00 AM
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06-30-2007, 05:41 PM
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OK I have to be honest, you are already handling it better than I would!! I would be hunting her down and beating the truth out of her!! (not a good idea BTW!) but I can understand being jealous and angry and suspicious and hurt.
I concur with the ladies who have already posted. Call her and ask her what is going on, but personally, I think the fact that you found Hottie with her number after it as a big sign. 
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06-30-2007, 06:11 PM
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I think Ataloss had given up on us and has not checked back in. Hope she does. I think she needs us. She must have been desperate to post here they way she did. We're thinking of you, Ata...
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06-30-2007, 06:23 PM
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Has anyone tried to pm or email her?? I hope she is ok.
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06-30-2007, 06:51 PM
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I hope we didn't scare her away...I think she just posted in a down time and sometimes it takes a while to get responses...maybe she'll come back and check and see that we've responded now...
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07-01-2007, 09:59 AM
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sorry you are going through this
I had a similar situation happen with me and Eric (hubby, he wasn't cheating...long....long story). I am not a prude but, I have morals. I believe that a man and woman can be friends, as long as that is as far as it gets. Sometimes that line gets crossed. I would confront your husband with your concerns and then I would confront her. It may be very innocent but, the fact that he is changing his routine with you (the calling you ) and has her number in his phone under "hottie" would not sit well with me....AT ALL..
I do hope you come back to see that we really do care...like some have said...it depends on what time you posted...most of us have jobs and can't respond right away....I am not on here as much as I am on YT...I need to come here more often.. Good Luck to you...I hope everything turns out ok. Brenda
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