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06-30-2007, 05:41 PM
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OK I have to be honest, you are already handling it better than I would!! I would be hunting her down and beating the truth out of her!! (not a good idea BTW!) but I can understand being jealous and angry and suspicious and hurt.
I concur with the ladies who have already posted. Call her and ask her what is going on, but personally, I think the fact that you found Hottie with her number after it as a big sign. 
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06-30-2007, 06:11 PM
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I think Ataloss had given up on us and has not checked back in. Hope she does. I think she needs us. She must have been desperate to post here they way she did. We're thinking of you, Ata...
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06-30-2007, 06:23 PM
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Has anyone tried to pm or email her?? I hope she is ok.
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06-30-2007, 06:51 PM
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I hope we didn't scare her away...I think she just posted in a down time and sometimes it takes a while to get responses...maybe she'll come back and check and see that we've responded now...
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07-01-2007, 09:59 AM
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sorry you are going through this
I had a similar situation happen with me and Eric (hubby, he wasn't cheating...long....long story). I am not a prude but, I have morals. I believe that a man and woman can be friends, as long as that is as far as it gets. Sometimes that line gets crossed. I would confront your husband with your concerns and then I would confront her. It may be very innocent but, the fact that he is changing his routine with you (the calling you ) and has her number in his phone under "hottie" would not sit well with me....AT ALL..
I do hope you come back to see that we really do care...like some have said...it depends on what time you posted...most of us have jobs and can't respond right away....I am not on here as much as I am on YT...I need to come here more often.. Good Luck to you...I hope everything turns out ok. Brenda
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07-02-2007, 06:11 AM
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I agree with what everyone said. I would not put up with the crap. He is either in the marriage or not. Its called respect. I would tell him to make a choice, but you have to be prepared for what choice he makes.
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07-02-2007, 06:18 PM
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You need to get to the bottom of this, whether you think you're hubby will tell you the truth or whether you think the only way to find out the truth is by confronting the girl, you need to find out what is going on and then make a decision about your future.
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