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Old 07-02-2007, 06:34 PM   #1
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Oh, I blow up at my hubby alot it seems. I'm the type that doesn't hold anything back so when someone is bothering me, I let him know...it usually happens at the same time every month!!! My hubby shrugs it off and blames it on me being on my period. I always feel bad afterwards and I always apologize, but that's just who I am. I am very passionate and very dramatic sometimes.
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Old 07-04-2007, 05:52 AM   #2
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I think we are ALL guilty of doing this. We are around them everyday so if we are upset we need to vent to someone....If I have had a stressfull day, hubby can tell right away. He will ASK me what's wrong...I will then let it out but, first I tell him...I'm not yelling AT you....I am yelling TO you! This way they will know right away that it isn't anything they have done and that you just need to vent!
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Old 07-04-2007, 12:22 PM   #3
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I think we are ALL guilty of doing this. We are around them everyday so if we are upset we need to vent to someone....If I have had a stressfull day, hubby can tell right away. He will ASK me what's wrong...I will then let it out but, first I tell him...I'm not yelling AT you....I am yelling TO you! This way they will know right away that it isn't anything they have done and that you just need to vent!
Yeah, I do this same thing. I'm not yelling AT you, I'm yelling TO you. I like that one!
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Old 07-05-2007, 11:06 AM   #4
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I think we are ALL guilty of doing this. We are around them everyday so if we are upset we need to vent to someone....If I have had a stressfull day, hubby can tell right away. He will ASK me what's wrong...I will then let it out but, first I tell him...I'm not yelling AT you....I am yelling TO you! This way they will know right away that it isn't anything they have done and that you just need to vent!
Wow, I need to remember that!!!

We had a preacher friend tell us that the way he and his wife have survived fights is when they see one coming on one of them will ask "Is the roof on fire?" and the other replies "No cause there's a burn ban." Kinda cheesy, but it brings them back to earth and calms them down.
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Old 07-09-2007, 10:34 AM   #5
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I do that and so does my fiance. We'll get heated or passionate about something, get really mean to each other and apologize 10 minutes later and we make up which is always fun I think that happens a lot when you're hungry, thinking about other things or have a lot on your place. I've just learned to thnk about what I'm going to say before it comes shooting out of my mouth and starts world war 3...lol
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