|  |  | 
|  | 
|  07-01-2007, 09:59 AM | #16 | 
| Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Massachusetts 
					Posts: 450
				 | 
				
				sorry you are going through this
			 
			
			I had a similar situation happen with me and Eric (hubby, he wasn't cheating...long....long story). I am not a prude but, I have morals. I believe that a man and woman can be friends, as long as that is as far as it gets.  Sometimes that line gets crossed. I would confront your husband with your concerns and then I would confront her. It may be very innocent but, the fact that he is changing his routine with you (the calling you ) and has her number in his phone under "hottie" would not sit well with me....AT ALL.. I do hope you come back to see that we really do care...like some have said...it depends on what time you posted...most of us have jobs and can't respond right away....I am not on here as much as I am on YT...I need to come here more often.. Good Luck to you...I hope everything turns out ok. Brenda 
				__________________ Brenda   | 
|   |   | 
|  07-02-2007, 06:11 AM | #17 | 
| Donating 4WT Yakker Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Oklahoma 
					Posts: 855
				 | 
			
			I agree with what everyone said.   I would not put up with the crap.  He is either in the marriage or not.  Its called respect.  I would tell him to make a choice, but you have to be prepared for what choice he makes.   He would not like it very much if the tables were turned. | 
|   |   | 
|  07-02-2007, 06:18 PM | #18 | 
| 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 
					Posts: 1,614
				 | 
			
			You need to get to the bottom of this, whether you think you're hubby will tell you the truth or whether you think the only way to find out the truth is by confronting the girl, you need to find out what is going on and then make a decision about your future.
		 
				__________________  Rebecca   "To whom much is given, much is expected." ~Luke 12:48 | 
|   |   | 
|  07-03-2007, 02:05 PM | #19 | |
| Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: South and Central Texas 
					Posts: 337
				 | Quote: 
 
				__________________ Marilyn's Disappearing Daughter!! Cake or Death, Melissa "Therefore do not throw away your confidence, which has a great reward. For you have need of endurance, so that when you have done the will of God you may receive what is promised." Heb 10:35-36 | |
|   |   | 
|  07-03-2007, 06:01 PM | #20 | |
| Donating 4WT Yakker Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Denver, NY 
					Posts: 8,097
				 | Quote: 
   
				__________________ Judy        | |
|   |   | 
|  | 
| Bookmarks | 
| 
 | 
 |