It's going to be an awkward night

[Gina]

Lindsey time for the mother talk!! You are a young beautiful girl with so much life ahead of you. No reason for you to settle, just because you don't want to be lonely. Go out there and live life, it goes by to quickly and one day you will be a middle aged woman saying where did time go... Do fun stuff it doesn't always have to be with a boyfriend, go out with the girls , play the field . My friend's mom use to always tell us and I am passing it to you. When the right guy comes along you will know and he will not let you go. So until then don't go looking it will come to you..

[Lindsey]

I played the field for 3 years before I gave in and started dating Ryden and I realized I really REALLY like that there was someone who was just always going to be there for me. My friends are all in long-term relationships with live-in boyfriends, or married. I only have a couple of single girlfriends that I don't really see a whole lot.
I really don't know what I want right now. I really do LIKE Kyle, but I don't know if I could love him. Lately I almost even dread anything intimate at all, even kissing. I'm just not into it. I love to be with him and cuddle and hold his hand and hug him. He's not afraid to just act silly with me and I'm completely myself with him. I don't want to lose his friendship, and all of his friends, and all of his family, but that's inevitable if I break his heart.

[judy]

Put on your red shoes Mama and get your young little butt back out there. If I have to do it, so do you! Anyway, these 2 guys are too into drama to be bothered with.

Do not play the victim, which is something we do as young women. Here's the truth - line up 10 men and bring in one woman. She can have any one of them she wants, even if it's only for one night.

Line up 10 women and bring in 1 man. If he's really really lucky, one or two might have a conversation with him.

We are not victims - they are at our beck and call. They do hav4 commitment issues, but if it's meant to be, they get over those issues at some point.

[Mandy]

Originally Posted by Lindsey

I played the field for 3 years before I gave in and started dating Ryden and I realized I really REALLY like that there was someone who was just always going to be there for me. My friends are all in long-term relationships with live-in boyfriends, or married. I only have a couple of single girlfriends that I don't really see a whole lot.
I really don't know what I want right now. I really do LIKE Kyle, but I don't know if I could love him. Lately I almost even dread anything intimate at all, even kissing. I'm just not into it. I love to be with him and cuddle and hold his hand and hug him. He's not afraid to just act silly with me and I'm completely myself with him. I don't want to lose his friendship, and all of his friends, and all of his family, but that's inevitable if I break his heart.

Dont worry about breaking hes heart - save yours from heartbreak!! Live life Lindsey, you have one life, and thats a good one, go and enjoy yourself!! If you dont, you'll regret it in 20 years from now

[Lindsey]

Thanks everyone for all your support! I can't begin to tell you all how much it means to me. I'm not close at all to my own mom so I'm really happy for any advice you give me.
I just think I need to give it one more chance. Maybe that's not a good thing but I can't just end it right now. I don't know why. He wants to see me tonight and I just want to see how it goes.

[Mandy]

Originally Posted by Lindsey

Thanks everyone for all your support! I can't begin to tell you all how much it means to me. I'm not close at all to my own mom so I'm really happy for any advice you give me.
I just think I need to give it one more chance. Maybe that's not a good thing but I can't just end it right now. I don't know why. He wants to see me tonight and I just want to see how it goes.

Well, you have lotsa mom's and big sisters here that love you lots!

Lindsey, do what you have to do, but stay truthful with yourself, dont get into anything thats bound to go stale (does that make sense) ?

[Lindsey]

It does make sense. I am never EVER the one who has to break up with someone... in fact I've only ever done it once. After 5 months of dating a guy I knew it wouldn't work, and I stuck it out for over a year.
Just yesterday I was wondering which is worse, being crazy about someone you think you'll be with forever and having them break up with you out of nowhere, or knowing someone really wants to be with you and you just can't have feelings back for them. That's basically my last relationship and my current relationship.

[Mandy]

Originally Posted by Lindsey

It does make sense. I am never EVER the one who has to break up with someone... in fact I've only ever done it once. After 5 months of dating a guy I knew it wouldn't work, and I stuck it out for over a year.
Just yesterday I was wondering which is worse, being crazy about someone you think you'll be with forever and having them break up with you out of nowhere, or knowing someone really wants to be with you and you just can't have feelings back for them. That's basically my last relationship and my current relationship.

Wish i was closer to show you the ropes, Lindsey. Dont ever get "stuck" in any relationship, that is the worste feeling.
Breaking up is never easy, either way.