Need an ear please......

2tiredmom · 09-18-2006, 03:26 PM

Thanks you gals. Your support really means alot.
2tiredmom

Amber_lv · 09-18-2006, 03:30 PM

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Originally Posted by 2tiredmom

Thanks you gals. Your support really means alot.
2tiredmom

Not a problem thats what we are here for!!

Janet · 09-18-2006, 03:48 PM

You know me, I would tell them to "kiss my..... No I woudn't, just kidding!!!!! I know it can be hard for you, because if that county office is like the ones here, it'll be rough for a little while. If you show them you're still the same sweet person, then they should be okay with it. It's when we change our attitude that it can become problemsome.

Necee419 · 09-18-2006, 04:23 PM

Realistically, we know some people may be upset at being looked over and some may even treat you coldly for awhile. That may be awkward for you in the beginning. But in the end, you must do what is best for you and your family. If they are true friends, they will be happy for you."Those who love you, will wish you well. And those who don't can go to h@@@"

rivermom · 09-18-2006, 08:12 PM

Take that job with a smile girl!! Obviously you are seen for your excellent qualities and are being recognized / rewarded for it. Friends and work at times don't mix but I am sure you will be able to handle this if any issues arise next year.

Congratulations!!!!!! Whooo-Hooo!!!!

Mandy · 09-18-2006, 10:58 PM

Well obviously, they have seen your work compared to theirs, so take the job and be proud of yourself!

And congrats

Sherry Lynn · 09-19-2006, 05:09 AM

Congratulations and good luck!!

Maybe you can take them all out to lunch the day before it is officially announced and be real humble and sincere when you tell them about it. That might make them feel like they're in your 'inner circle' and help them to take it a little better. (After all they probably will already know... especially if it's a small office... those rumor mills can be brutal!)

Or better yet... take them to a happy hour. Let the liquor loosen their lips a little so you find out how they really feel!

Now if they will be reporting to you, that could open up a whole new can of worms. As long as you are being honest, sincere and from the heart, it should be hard for any decent person to get POd. And if they do... sic Janet on them!

09-18-2006, 03:26 PM	#1
2tiredmom Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Indiana Posts: 1,367	Thanks Thanks you gals. Your support really means alot. 2tiredmom

09-18-2006, 03:48 PM	#3
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	You know me, I would tell them to "kiss my..... No I woudn't, just kidding!!!!! I know it can be hard for you, because if that county office is like the ones here, it'll be rough for a little while. If you show them you're still the same sweet person, then they should be okay with it. It's when we change our attitude that it can become problemsome. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

09-18-2006, 08:12 PM	#5
rivermom Donating 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Tontitown, Arkansas Posts: 2,475	Take that job with a smile girl!! Obviously you are seen for your excellent qualities and are being recognized / rewarded for it. Friends and work at times don't mix but I am sure you will be able to handle this if any issues arise next year. Congratulations!!!!!! Whooo-Hooo!!!! __________________ ~_/> , /\/\ ,,, Sheryl When I grow up I want to be a horse whisperer!

09-18-2006, 10:58 PM	#6
Mandy Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Who cares! Posts: 4,587	Well obviously, they have seen your work compared to theirs, so take the job and be proud of yourself! And congrats __________________ Many people will walk in and out your life, but only true friends leave footprints!

09-18-2006, 04:23 PM	#4
Necee419 Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Bronx, NY Posts: 283	Realistically, we know some people may be upset at being looked over and some may even treat you coldly for awhile. That may be awkward for you in the beginning. But in the end, you must do what is best for you and your family. If they are true friends, they will be happy for you."Those who love you, will wish you well. And those who don't can go to h@@@"

09-19-2006, 05:09 AM	#7
Sherry Lynn Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Jersey Posts: 211	Congratulations and good luck!! Maybe you can take them all out to lunch the day before it is officially announced and be real humble and sincere when you tell them about it. That might make them feel like they're in your 'inner circle' and help them to take it a little better. (After all they probably will already know... especially if it's a small office... those rumor mills can be brutal!) Or better yet... take them to a happy hour. Let the liquor loosen their lips a little so you find out how they really feel! Now if they will be reporting to you, that could open up a whole new can of worms. As long as you are being honest, sincere and from the heart, it should be hard for any decent person to get POd. And if they do... sic Janet on them!

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