One piece of advice you can give us?

[Sherry Lynn]

Don't get mad or upset about the things you can't change.

You always have a choice. If nothing else you can choose your attitude.

It's better to give than to receive.

A couple from my wise Grandma, may she RIP:

You have two ears and one mouth for a reason. (I need to heed that one more!)

As long as you're clean and paid for you have nothing to worry about. (She meant that literally as well as metaphorically.)