Eating Disorders:

[Chandra Amaya]

I stopped eating. For almost three years, I ate one piece of bread a day. I stopped this because i got pg with my oldest son. I hid this from everyone and still thought I was fat. I DID do it for the weight issue. I still struggle with remembering to eat and feeling fat. Even more so now because I am no longer 97lbs. I now weigh around 130 and I hate it but my hubby thinks I look good and that at 97lbs I looked terrible. That does help alittle. I do think you should talk to a counselor. They have many ways of coping with issues that i would have never thought of. Good luck and take care.

[judy]

Kathy,

You have been through a very hard year. Have you thought about a bereavement group? One to one therapy is also great. I've been seeing the same therapist for years now, and I love it. There are times I have nothing to talk about, so I cut back to once a month, but I highly recommend it.

Losing that much weight is not healthy, and if you get sick, who will be spoiling your dogs! And who will be our Kathy?

Please try it at least.